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Bagus – tetap kuat x

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Hästi tehtud – olge tugev x

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Браво – пазете си х

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Godt gjort – hold deg sterk x

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Goed gedaan – blijf sterk x

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Hi Margaret
Yes resentment, self pity and negativity can hold us back – but we deserve self love and self compassion.
Sure we made mistakes but we are just good people trying to sort out our lives and live as best as we can.

You are working hard at stopping gambling- it is a huge change for us and for our brains . It is a time for extra kindness towards ourselves. Once we sort this horrible addiction we can start to work on other stuff .
For now Margaret just give yourself some well earned credit for how far you have come. Stopping gambling requires huge amounts of energy and focus.
Well done on your journey so far and thank you for sharing.

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Γεια σας Newday Έχετε φτάσει στην τρίτη μέρα για έναν απλό λόγο – τη δική σας σκληρή δουλειά.

Έχετε εγκαταστήσει τη Γκάμπια επειδή η εμπειρία σας έχει διδάξει ότι δεν μπορούμε να το κάνουμε μόνο με τη θέληση – στην πραγματικότητα η δύναμη της θέλησής μας αποδυναμώνεται σημαντικά από τον εθισμό που θα είναι πάντα μέρος μας – δεν σημαίνει ότι πρέπει να ελέγχει ή να καταστρέφει ζει.

Πραγματικά μπράβο για τον ελεύθερο χρόνο στοιχήματος και τις ενέργειες που έχετε κάνει για να πραγματοποιηθεί. Θα εκπλαγείτε από το πώς κάθε μέρος της ζωής σας αρχίζει να βελτιώνεται τις επόμενες εβδομάδες.

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Salut Newday Vous avez le troisième jour pour une raison simple – votre propre travail acharné.

Vous avez installé Gambian parce que l'expérience vous a appris que nous ne pouvons pas le faire avec la seule volonté – en fait, notre volonté est gravement affaiblie par la dépendance qui fera toujours partie de Nous – – cela ne signifie pas qu'il doit contrôler ou détruire notre vies .

Vraiment bien fait pour votre temps libre pari et les mesures que vous avez prises pour y arriver. Vous serez étonné de voir à quel point chaque partie de votre vie commencera à s'améliorer dans les semaines à venir.

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Hi Newday You have got to day three for one simple reason – your own hard work.

You have installed Gambian because experience has taught you we can’t do it with willpower alone – in fact our willpower is severely weakened by the addiction which will always be part of Us – – it doesn’t mean it has to control or destroy our lives .

Really well done on your gamble free time and the actions you have taken to make it happen. You will be amazed at how every part of your life starts to improve in the coming weeks .

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Hallo Newday Je moet dag drie bereiken om één simpele reden: je eigen harde werk.

Je hebt Gambiaans geïnstalleerd omdat de ervaring je heeft geleerd dat we het niet alleen met wilskracht kunnen doen – in feite is onze wilskracht ernstig verzwakt door de verslaving die altijd deel van ons zal uitmaken – het betekent niet dat het onze leeft.

Echt goed gedaan op je gokvrije tijd en de acties die je hebt ondernomen om het te laten gebeuren. Je zult versteld staan hoe elk onderdeel van je leven de komende weken begint te verbeteren.

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Hi T
It was nice to chat to you last night.
There is gambling addiction which those of us you chatted with last night have.
An abusive relationship is a completely different matter.

I have known enough people with gambling addiction to be able to say one does not cause or excuse the other. Sometimes friends and families try to use gambling as an excuse for abusive behaviour but there aren’t any excuses.

Most of the people I know who gamble are very nice people trying really hard to control an addiction. I also know one who is a bully and who is abusive to his family.

No one should put up with abusive behaviour. Many people don’t even realise that their labelling of people and calling them lazy, fat or whatever other label they choose is abusive.

https://www.loveisrespect.org/is-this-abuse/types-of-abuse/

Check out this link. Pay particular attention to the section on emotional abuse.

I hope you make the right decision for you but please believe you deserve to be respected and cherished by your other half.

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Hi Infalsetto
That really good news about your win.
Please don’t think I am spoil your win for you but I have often read similar posts – in fact I could have written similar posts.
Please muster every ounce of will power you have and cut yourself off the casino or at least put your money somewhere you can’t spend it .

Unfortunately the addiction will still be there and will tempt you to return to win more – you probably already have thoughts of doing it all again .

This is a lifeline – a huge help to leaving gambling behind . Take action to safeguard this money Infalsetto .

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Recovery is amazing Emma and as you describe we see progress in so many ways .
It may be as simple as having out minds relaxed enough to notice that sun come out or to appreciate the small luxuries we can now buy for ourselves.
It may even be recognising how much we deprived ourselves in the past and how much we deserve this.

Keep strong Emma – you are doing so well.

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Well done Darkenergy.
2 weeks is fabulous .

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Bravo Darkenergy. 2 tjedna su fenomenalne.

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