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Thank you RG, Monica , Steev, StevieV and Vera

I’m not sure how but I missed most of these replies … I think I just figured no one would write and didn’t check even though I have been on the site loads.

If someone else was writing what I am about to write I would question their intelligence … he has been watching his p’s and q’s and I’m thinking maybe things are on the up … well mostly … my standards have dropped so much. I’m grateful not to be sworn at and name called ( much!).There is definitely a cycle of some sort at play here.

I am going to read each of your replies again and consider carefully what you all have said.

Thank you so much for your considerate responses.

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Bedankt RG, Monica, Steev, StevieV en Vera

Ik weet niet zeker hoe, maar ik heb de meeste van deze antwoorden gemist … Ik denk dat ik dacht dat niemand zou schrijven en ik heb het niet gecontroleerd, ook al ben ik op de site geladen.

Als iemand anders zou schrijven wat ik ga schrijven, zou ik hun intelligentie in twijfel trekken … hij heeft zijn p's en q's in de gaten gehouden en ik denk dat misschien dingen in de lift zitten … nou ja meestal … mijn normen zijn gedaald zo veel. Ik ben dankbaar dat ik niet beëdigd en bij naam genoemd ben (veel!). Er is hier zeker een soort cyclus in het spel.

Ik ga elk van uw antwoorden opnieuw lezen en zorgvuldig overwegen wat u allemaal hebt gezegd.

Alvast bedankt voor uw attente reacties.

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Obrigado RG, Monica, Steev, StevieV e Vera

Não tenho certeza de como, mas perdi a maioria dessas respostas … Acho que apenas percebi que ninguém escreveria e não verifiquei, embora eu tenha acessado o site carregado.

Se outra pessoa estivesse escrevendo o que estou prestes a escrever, eu questionaria sua inteligência … ela tem observado seus p's e q's e estou pensando que talvez as coisas estejam aumentando … bem, principalmente … meus padrões caíram muito. Sou grato por não ser xingado e meu nome ser chamado (muito!). Definitivamente, há um ciclo de algum tipo em jogo aqui.

Vou ler cada uma de suas respostas novamente e considerar cuidadosamente o que todos vocês disseram.

Muito obrigado por suas respostas atenciosas.

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Well done Fritz.
One month is a great achievement. Those early days can be very challenging. As you describe, gambling thoughts will opportunity to our heads from time to time but you know exactly what to do when this happens.

Keep strong Fritz – you’ve got this !

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Steev
That does sound like a great plan.
I sometimes wonder how some People (like you) seem to be able to plan your lives, while I seem to drift through mine .

I really can’t think of anything I would like to do more than party my way through life – living like Patsy and Edina from Absolutely Fabulous would be my ideal life.

Please tell me how you can came to know what you really wanted from life ? Did you always know ? It amazes me that at my age I am still drifting through and still no sense of direction..

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Hi Kenny
Well done on reaching out for help. That’s a great start.
Another great step would be to install a gambling blocker on your phone and other internet devices – perhaps you could try Gamban.

Addictions are hard to overcome without help so have a look around your own locality and see what help is available .
Also if you join the new members group here tomorrow night you will be able to get lots of advice.
I hope this helps .

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Just realised I reached seven months gamble free and am
Two days into my eight month yahoo !!

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Ik realiseerde me net dat ik zeven maanden gokvrij ben en twee dagen in mijn acht maanden durende yahoo !!

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Acabei de perceber que alcancei sete meses de jogo grátis e estou Dois dias em meu yahoo de oito meses !!

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Tocmai mi-am dat seama că am ajuns la șapte luni de jocuri de noroc gratuite și am două zile în opt luni de yahoo !!

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Marriage is probably great for some adults – to be honest  it wasn’t something I ever felt I needed but then I guess I allowed myself to be manipulated in so many ways. No more – onwards and upwards !

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Het huwelijk is waarschijnlijk geweldig voor sommige volwassenen – om eerlijk te zijn was het niet iets dat ik ooit nodig had, maar ik denk dat ik mezelf op zoveel manieren liet manipuleren. Niet meer – verder en verder!

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O casamento é provavelmente ótimo para alguns adultos – para ser honesto, não era algo que eu achasse necessário, mas acho que me permiti ser manipulado de muitas maneiras. Não mais – para a frente e para cima!

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Căsătoria este probabil grozavă pentru unii adulți – ca să fiu sincer, nu a fost ceva de care am simțit vreodată că am nevoie, dar apoi cred că mi-am permis să fiu manipulat în atât de multe moduri. Nu mai mult – înainte și în sus!

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Agree with all you have written Vera except I feel my life is upsidedown now and I would be putting it right! xx

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