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  • in reply to: Nu renunț! #111446
    i-did-it
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    Bună Lizbeth, Post excelent – nu suntem responsabili pentru comportamentul altcuiva – dar încă ne poate răni! Nu este niciodată nevoie să tragi copiii în argumentele adulților sau să îi folosești ca pioni. Viața ta pare să meargă foarte bine în ciuda comportamentului fiicei tale – mersul la biserică ne înalță spiritele și este minunat să vezi prieteni vechi. A ne iubi pe noi înșine este ușor atunci când viața merge bine, dar mai greu atunci când există umflături pe parcurs – păstrați-vă puternic!

    in reply to: Я не здаюся! #116824
    i-did-it
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    Привіт Лізбет, чудовий пост – ми не несемо відповідальності за поведінку інших людей – але це все ще може нашкодити нам! Ніколи не потрібно втягувати дітей у суперечки дорослих або використовувати їх як пішаків. Здається, що ваше життя йде дуже добре, незважаючи на поведінку вашої дочки- відвідування церкви піднімає нам настрій, і приємно бачити старих друзів. Любити себе легко, коли життя йде добре, але важче, коли по дорозі є нерівності – будь міцним!

    in reply to: Ne odustajem! #119071
    i-did-it
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    Bok Lizbeth, Odličan post – nismo odgovorni za tuđe ponašanje – ali nas ipak može povrijediti! Nikada nema potrebe uvlačiti djecu u rasprave odraslih ili ih koristiti kao pijune. Čini se da vam život ide jako dobro unatoč kćerkinom ponašanju- odlazak u crkvu nam podiže raspoloženje i lijepo je vidjeti stare prijatelje. Voljeti sebe lako je kad život ide dobro, ali teže kad na putu postoje nevolje – budite jaki!

    in reply to: Jag ger inte upp! #111635
    i-did-it
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    Hej Lizbeth, bra inlägg – vi är inte ansvariga för någon annans beteende – men det kan fortfarande skada oss! Det finns aldrig något behov av att dra barn in i vuxenargument eller att använda dem som bonde. Ditt liv verkar gå riktigt bra trots din dotters beteende- att gå till kyrkan lyfter vårt humör och det är fantastiskt att se gamla vänner. Att älska oss själva är lätt när livet går bra men svårare när det finns gupp längs vägen – håll ut!

    in reply to: 888 refund #42032
    i-did-it
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    Xmas shopping !!

    in reply to: A New Chapter Project 60 #33762
    i-did-it
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    Amen – delighted to read this post .
    Keep strong Micky – it’s a hard auld struggle !

    in reply to: I was here #36357
    i-did-it
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    Hi Laura – hope you had a great shopping trip – it’s going to be a great Christmas for you

    in reply to: How do I tell my partner about what I’ve done! #39569
    i-did-it
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    What a comeback Tina – you have sought help with your debts, you have been creative with Christmas presents and you have built up a solid amount of gamble free time.
    Sounds like you are doing really well!

    in reply to: Day 1 Starts Tomorrow #35393
    i-did-it
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    Brilliant Johnny ! Super example to us all- any more shopping?

    in reply to: The way of a fool is right in his own eyes #41991
    i-did-it
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    Thank you Laura for such a lovely post-
    It’s strikes me as strange that someone can take the time to write such a thoughtful and complimentary post and we simply say thank you and move on.

    Yet when someone behaves towards us in a hurtful way we remember it forever -why can’t we move on then ?

    Tonight as I pondered this question i realised there are so many things that will hurt us more deeply than words -life can throw some very cruel things at us and probably most of us have experienced things like this .

    I guess I’m saying nobody died –
    I will be ok.
    I can move on.
    I have forgiven
    …I struggle with forgetting (character fault 467 lol)

    i-did-it
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    Aw khuram .
    I feel so sad for you and I can empathise because I have been there myself too often.
    The only thing I can advise is to set every barrier you can think of so u simply cannot gamble -a thing I used to do was tape bank cards under the top surface of my desk in work -then when I went home i didn’t have them to use
    Well done on self banning – and yes it’s a great idea to self ban from the bookies.

    in reply to: The way of a fool is right in his own eyes #41989
    i-did-it
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    Laura , I am trying to move on .
    I appreciate your support .
    I don’t want anyone to have to feel they need to take sides
    But some comments which were made were just too hurtful and unnecessary and are difficult to forget – but who knows

    Have to hand it to Geordie – he can argue forever but isn’t harsh or unkind !
    I will chat to you in group – u are a great person – u have been even and balanced in your views and are well loved on here !

    in reply to: The second 100 days #39839
    i-did-it
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    Missing my mate but know when I am feeling relaxed and happy I never think about GT so am taking your absence as a really good sign .

    in reply to: Aš nepasiduodu! #125062
    i-did-it
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    Darbe tiesiog laikas greitai parašyti pranešimą. Lizbeth dažnai rašiau, kad mes čia nepažįstame žmonių, bet kartais galbūt pažįstame juos geriau nei realiame gyvenime. Pavyzdžiui, galiu pamatyti absoliučią meilę savo anūkams – ir jūs, vaikai. Mes ne visada mėgstame savo šeimą, bet tai nereiškia, kad mes jų nemylime. Ši nauja tema buvo puiki idėja! Tai tau atrodo kaip nauja pradžia!

    in reply to: I’m not giving up! #40232
    i-did-it
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    In work so just time for a quick post .
    Lizbeth often I have written that we don’t get to know the people on here but sometimes maybe we get to know them better than in real life .
    I can for examples see the absolute love you have for your grandchildren – and you children for that matter.
    We don’t always like our family but that doesn’t mean we don’t love them.
    This new thread was a great idea !
    It feels like a new start for you !

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