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Добре дошла Нети. Получихте добър съвет. Трябва да запомните, че това е една по една ситуация. Трябва да останете без хазарт един ден или един час наведнъж. Стойте тук и четете. Ще научите за тригерите и поставянето на бариери. Можете да направите това. Ние можем да направим това …….. НансиКато се крие зад нас и това, което е пред нас, са малки неща в сравнение с това, което се крие в нас ………….
ようこそNettie。あなたは良いアドバイスを得ました。これは一度に1つの状況であることを覚えておく必要があります。一度に1日または1時間ギャンブルをしないでください。ここにいて読んでください。トリガーとバリアの設定について学習します。あなたはこれを行うことができます。私たちはこれを行うことができます……..ナンシー私たちの後ろにあるものと私たちの前にあるものは、私たちの中にあるものと比較して小さな問題です………….
Benvenuta Nettie. Hai ricevuto un buon consiglio. Devi ricordare che questa è una situazione alla volta. Devi rimanere senza gioco un giorno o un'ora alla volta. Resta qui e leggi. Imparerai a conoscere i trigger e la creazione di barriere. Puoi farlo. Possiamo farcela……..Nancy Quello che c'è dietro di noi e quello che c'è davanti a noi sono piccole cose rispetto a quello che c'è dentro di noi………….
Bine ai venit Nettie. Ai primit sfaturi bune. Trebuie să vă amintiți că este o situație una câte una. Trebuie să rămâi la pariuri gratuit o zi sau o oră la un moment dat. Rămâi aici și citește. Veți afla despre declanșatoare și stabilirea barierelor. Poți sa faci asta. Putem face acest lucru …….. Nancy Ceea ce se află în spatele nostru și ceea ce se află în fața noastră sunt chestiuni mici în comparație cu ceea ce se află în noi ………….
خوش آمدید Nettie. آپ نے اچھا مشورہ دیا ہے۔ آپ کو یاد رکھنا ہوگا کہ یہ ایک وقت کی صورتحال ہے۔ آپ کو ایک وقت میں ایک دن یا ایک گھنٹہ جوئے سے آزاد رہنا چاہیے۔ یہاں رہو اور پڑھو۔ آپ محرکات اور رکاوٹوں کو قائم کرنے کے بارے میں سیکھیں گے۔ آپ یہ کر سکتے ہیں. ہم یہ کر سکتے ہیں …….. نینسی ہمارے پیچھے کیا جھوٹ ہے اور جو ہمارے سامنے ہے وہ چھوٹے معاملات ہیں جو ہمارے اندر موجود ہے ………….
Bienvenido Nettie. Has recibido buenos consejos. Tienes que recordar que esta es una situación de uno en uno. Debe permanecer libre de apuestas un día o una hora a la vez. Quédate aquí y lee. Aprenderá sobre los factores desencadenantes y la creación de barreras. Puedes hacerlo. Podemos hacer esto …….. Nancy Lo que hay detrás de nosotros y lo que tenemos ante nosotros son cosas pequeñas en comparación con lo que hay dentro de nosotros ………….
Bem-vinda Nettie. Você recebeu um bom conselho. Você tem que lembrar que esta é uma situação de um de cada vez. Você deve ficar sem jogar um dia ou uma hora de cada vez. Fique aqui e leia. Você aprenderá sobre gatilhos e como estabelecer barreiras. Você consegue fazer isso. Podemos fazer isso …….. Nancy O que está atrás de nós e o que está diante de nós são questões pequenas em comparação com o que está dentro de nós ………….
स्वागत है नेटी। आपको अच्छी सलाह मिली है। आपको याद रखना होगा कि यह एक समय में एक स्थिति है। आपको एक बार में एक दिन या एक घंटा जुआ मुक्त रहना चाहिए। यहीं रहो और पढ़ो। आप ट्रिगर और बाधाओं को स्थापित करने के बारे में जानेंगे। आप ऐसा कर सकते हैं। हम यह कर सकते हैं……. नैन्सी हमारे पीछे क्या है और हमारे सामने क्या है, यह हमारे भीतर क्या है, इसकी तुलना में छोटी चीजें हैं………….
Welkom Nettie. Je hebt goed advies gekregen. Je moet onthouden dat dit een één-voor-één situatie is. U moet een dag of een uur per keer gokvrij blijven. Blijf hier en lees. Je leert over triggers en het opzetten van barrières. Je kan dit doen. Wij kunnen dit……..NancyWat achter ons ligt en wat voor ons ligt, zijn kleine zaken vergeleken met wat in ons ligt………….
Welcome Nettie. You have gotten good advice. You have to remember this is a one at a time situation. You must stay gamble free one day or one hour at a time. Stay here and read. You will learn about triggers and setting up barriers. You can do this. We can do this……..NancyWhat lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us………….
I was good that you recognized the need to stay busy until the urges past. Sometimes they are sooo hard to fight,. But by keeping busy you are not thinking about them. I hope you get that mortgage business straightened out….Nancy
Hi Bettie, Oh yeah the stress will certainly bring on the urges. When ever I would get frustrated, I would get urges to just go sit and zombie out in front of the machine. But as we both know, this only causes more stress and self loathing. So I am glad to read you are planning on spending time with your non gambling friend. Have a good day. And yes, look for another job…………..Nancy
It’s good to know that the self exclusion works doesn’t it? I am glad your mortgage is all caught up. I did try to work with the mortgage company, but they don’t do loan modifications on investment property. So now, I have no choice but to try to sell it in a short sale or let it be foreclosed on. I know it will hurt my credit score, but I can’t think of another thing to do. I know I won’t be buying another home, so that leave maybe a car in the future. My husband says he will get the car loan if necessary.
Let us know houw the GA meeting went…………..NancyWhat lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us………….Hi Bettie… Sounds like you are setting some good long term goals. You sound very positive. This gambling can really bring a person down emotionally and physically. The longer we stay away from it the better we feel. Like we are coming out of a fog and can now see some light. Hope you get things straightened out with your mortgage. I have decided to not make another mortgage payment on my rental property. It will be vacant next month and unless I get another renter I can not afford to make those payments. I have listed it for sale and and submitted the forms for a short sale to the mortgage company. I have never not paid a bill before but I can not let this get to me. I have been stressed about it for a long time. Oh well, it will work itself out………..Have a good day,,,,,,,,,NancyWhat lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us………….
Hi Kathryn, I’m glad your back is feeling better. I can just picture you wheeling around the grocery store. Hope you have a pleasant day………..NANCYIf you look at what you do not have in life, you do not have anything. If you look at what you do have in life, you have everything…