Hi Caroline I was reading your post and i could not stop crying as I feel your pain. strangely enough Im in the same situation as you and it feels like I’m reading my own story. I love my husband dearly and he is such a good man the only problem is just this addiction. He has a big family too and they are aware of the extent of his addiction. the same as you My mum passed away 3 yrs ago and my Dad lives in different country too. Thank you for sharing and i hope and pray that things will work out for you