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MDR! Je suppose que c'est vrai ce qu'ils disent, nous ne pouvons pas choisir notre famille ! Je me demande parfois si je suis un peu hyper sensible aux perturbations de la "force" lol. Toujours vouloir s'assurer qu'il n'y a pas de problème. Vouloir être prêt à lisser les plumes ébouriffées. Mais j'essaie de laisser les autres adopter leur propre comportement. Je ne suis pas responsable de leur comportement. Aucun jeu ne presse Liz, génial !

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çok komik! Sanırım dedikleri doğru, ailemizi seçemiyoruz! Bazen "kuvvet" lol'deki rahatsızlıklara karşı biraz aşırı duyarlı olup olmadığımı merak ediyorum. Her zaman yaygara olmadığından emin olmak istemek. Fırfırlı tüyleri yumuşatmaya hazır olmak istemek. Ama başkalarının kendi davranışlarını sergilemesine izin vermeye çalışıyorum. Nasıl davrandıklarından ben sorumlu değilim. Hiçbir kumar Liz'i zorlamaz, harika!

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I hope your daughter is fattening you up. I’m always afraid you would rather starve than ask for help. Great that you are with your daughter who understands you the most. Lots of hugs would be in order. Missing your presence. Hope you are having a good time away.
Laura

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Dear IDI, I was writing this post to you today when the power went out. I’ve just signed in group now.
Smart, witty, funny, caring IDI. I would be sorry to see you go and don’t understand why you need to 🙁 Recovery can be a touchy subject. If we’d resolved all the issues in our lives we wouldn’t be on a recovery site for gambling addiction. I’ve gotten so much out of your posts and chats and being able to talk over everyday life in the context of the added stress of being a CG has been immeasurable. Dear friend “mate” please keep in touch. xo Laura

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Thanks Mav and Kathryn. I only ever had a sign once before in my life. I will only believe it is a good sign. I think you’re right Mav, you never know who’s listening and nature puts me in mind of our creator. So good to get a note off of you Kathryn, it has been ages I think! Keep counting the blessings. Mom just went through this process with her mother. It’s so sad. Hold on to the good memories Kathryn. You’ve been a good daughter through out your moms dementia. Your kids still know their gran and see how an elder should be treated. Life doesn’t always seem fair when assigning physical hurtles for people to deal with. So keep living life large while you can for as long as you can. Your last trip was inspirational! So great that you put that ban back in place. Keep going 🙂 ~ L

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Reading back on my comment I can now understand your thoughts on it. I thought you were digging at the other person, but looking back, I see what you are saying too.
I think there is a bit of tit for tat going on here. If we can’t be nice to each other can we at least say nothing? The types of basics we teach our kids.
Oh dear, now I think I’ve stirred the pot. I only wish you well IDI. Laura

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Good morning IDI! There was a comment above that kind of caught me off guard and made me sad to read it. Someone made that post to me and it really bothered me to see it used as a means of attack. People often say they aren’t hurt as a means to save face. And maybe my comment hadn’t hurt them, but to generalize and say they don’t get hurt, as in ever, i think was mean as an insult/dig. You have asked others to quit going overboard or making insulting statements… let’s all take the high road and work on recovery.

You’ve made some very open posts to others in the last few days. There is no defensiveness in them. I understand that you use it as a shield, and sometimes rightfully so!

I think we have developed a real friendship from our times in group. I hope my honesty about how I feel about the above post doesn’t insert a wedge.

Looking forward to next time we connect. Keep up the great work. You have made many changes in the last little while for you!

Laura

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Godmorgen Liz, godt at se den støtte du får her. Ikke underligt, at du har tilføjet rådgivning til blandingen. Der sker meget med familien. Du har mange lyspunkter i øjeblikket, dine børnebørn og din yngste datter ser ud til at klare sig godt, og der var en gang hun havde problemer. For ikke at nævne, at du bliver ved med at udfordre dig selv til at vokse og ændre sig. Måske bruge de rolige tider, hvor din søster er ude hos dine mødre eller kasinoet til at omgruppere, meditere og slappe af. Hav en god dag Liz! -L

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Bună dimineața Liz, bine să văd sprijinul pe care îl primiți aici. Nu este de mirare că ați adăugat consiliere la mix. Se întâmplă multe cu familia. Aveți multe puncte luminoase în acest moment, nepoții dvs. și fiica cea mai mică pare să se descurce bine și a existat o vreme când avea probleme. Ca să nu mai vorbim că te tot provocezi să crești și să te schimbi. Poate folosiți momentele liniștite în care sora ta este la mame sau la cazinou pentru a vă regrupa, medita și relaxa. O zi bună Liz! -L

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Dobro jutro Liz, drago mi je vidjeti podršku koju ovdje dobivate. Nije ni čudo što ste miksu dodali savjetovanje. Puno se događa s obitelji. Trenutno imate mnogo svijetlih točaka, svoje unuke i čini se da je vašoj najmlađoj kćeri dobro i da je neko vrijeme imala problema. Da ne spominjem da se stalno izazivate na rast i promjenu. Možda iskoristite mirna vremena kad je vaša sestra vani kod vaših mama ili u kockarnici da se pregrupirate, meditirate i opustite se. Ugodan dan Liz! -L

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گڈ مارننگ لیز ، آپ کو یہاں جو سپورٹ مل رہی ہے اسے دیکھ کر اچھا لگا۔ کوئی تعجب نہیں کہ آپ نے مکس میں مشاورت شامل کی ہے۔ خاندان کے ساتھ بہت کچھ ہو رہا ہے۔ اس وقت آپ کے پاس بہت سارے روشن مقامات ہیں ، آپ کے پوتے پوتیاں اور آپ کی سب سے چھوٹی بیٹی اچھی کارکردگی کا مظاہرہ کر رہی ہیں اور ایک وقت تھا جب اسے مسائل درپیش تھے۔ اس بات کا ذکر نہیں کہ آپ اپنے آپ کو بڑھنے اور تبدیل کرنے کے لیے چیلنج کرتے رہتے ہیں۔ شاید پرسکون اوقات استعمال کریں جب آپ کی بہن آپ کی ماں یا جوئے بازی کے اڈوں پر دوبارہ جمع ، مراقبہ اور آرام کے لیے باہر ہو۔ اچھا دن ہے لیز! -ل

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Guten Morgen Liz, schön zu sehen, welche Unterstützung Sie hier bekommen. Kein Wunder, dass Sie dem Mix eine Beratung hinzugefügt haben. Viel los mit der Familie. Sie haben im Moment viele Lichtblicke, Ihre Enkel und Ihre jüngste Tochter scheint es gut zu machen und es gab eine Zeit, in der sie Probleme hatte. Ganz zu schweigen davon, dass Sie sich immer wieder herausfordern, zu wachsen und sich zu verändern. Nutze vielleicht die ruhigen Zeiten, wenn deine Schwester bei deinen Müttern oder im Casino ist, um dich neu zu gruppieren, zu meditieren und zu entspannen. Schönen Tag Liz! -L

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Tajjeb Liz, tajjeb li tara l-appoġġ li qed tieħu hawn. Mhux ta 'b'xejn li żidt pariri mat-taħlita. Ħafna għaddejjin mal-familja. Int għandek ħafna spots qawwijin bħalissa, in-neputijiet tiegħek, u t-tifla l-iżgħar tiegħek tidher li sejra tajjeb u kien hemm żmien li kellha problemi. Biex ma nsemmix li tibqa 'tisfida lilek innifsek biex tikber u tbiddel. Forsi uża l-ħinijiet kwieti meta oħtok tkun barra minn ommok jew mill-każinò biex terġa 'tinġabar, timmedita u tirrilassa. Have a good day Liz! -L

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Labas rytas Liz, malonu matyti palaikymą, kurį čia gauni. Nenuostabu, kad jūs įtraukėte konsultacijas į mišinį. Daug kas vyksta su šeima. Šiuo metu turite daug ryškių dėmių, anūkai, ir atrodo, kad jūsų jauniausiai dukrai sekasi gerai, ir buvo laikas, kai ji turėjo problemų. Jau nekalbant apie tai, kad nuolat keliate sau iššūkį augti ir keistis. Galbūt pasinaudokite ramiu laiku, kai sesuo išeina pas mamas ar kazino, kad susigrupuotų, medituotų ir atsipalaiduotų. Geros dienos Liz! -L

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God morgen Liz, godt å se støtten du får her. Ikke rart at du har lagt til rådgivning i blandingen. Mye skjer med familien. Du har mange lyspunkter for øyeblikket, dine barnebarn og din yngste datter ser ut til å ha det bra, og det var en gang hun hadde problemer. For ikke å snakke om at du stadig utfordrer deg selv til å vokse og forandre deg. Kanskje bruke de rolige tider når søsteren din er ute hos mødrene dine eller kasinoet for å omgruppere, meditere og slappe av. Ha en fin dag Liz! -L

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