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Hi Kathryn,
Just a quick note to say hi and hope that things are going well. Hope you have a wonderful week!You can do anything if you put your mind to it! Have great day! – DDWay to go Bettie! I’m sitting here this morning debating on working out and you’ve motivated me! It is great to see how well you are doing even with the little things in life cropping up. Hang in there and keep up the great work!You can do anything if you put your mind to it! Have great day! – DD
Hi Bettie,
Great to talk to you last night! Just remember, you really deserve good things and good people in your life! Great on the workout too! I’m getting back into mine as well. Have a great week!You can do anything if you put your mind to it! Have great day! – DDHi Bettie,
Even though your post said some difficult things, it was really insightful on your part. I think it is excellent that you are linking the unhealthy relationship and the gambling together. Funny, for me, it is very similar too. My childhood has definitely driven me to feelings of not feeling worth and a low self esteem. My relationships have followed the same pattern. Soooooo, I look back to the times that I really felt loved and worth while and focus on those feelings as the ones that I deserve. I’m trying to focus on the good in my life, laughing with friends, the times my parents did show affection, my sister and my relationship and any of those times in my life where I did feel good about myself. Sometimes, I think, I’ve had more of the "not so good" than the "good" but the good is still there and much more of the good is yet to come. You’re a great person and your time is right around the corner. You are doing wonderfully! Keep it going!You can do anything if you put your mind to it! Have great day! – DDHi Kathryn!
Sorry to hear the trip to the States has been postponed! It would have been fun had we been able to cross paths!
Sounds like things are on the move with you all. Glad to hear that you’ve talked with the counselor with Bailey and that things are progressing.
I’m back from my trip and finally starting to feel rested and getting caught back up at work.
Looks like I missed you and P on chat. Hope to catch you all this weekend.
You can do anything if you put your mind to it! Have great day! – DDHi Kathryn,
It was so great to chat with you and all this weekend. How fun! I’m getting ready for my trip. I leave tomorrow and get back Monday evening. I’m working from home today so I can finish up some things before I go. I don’t feel tempted right now to hit the casino on the boat. Oddly enough, I’m liking me well enough right now to not want to punish myself or escape. One day at a time. I hope the car is not too costly. I just hate car trouble!You can do anything if you put your mind to it! Have great day! – DDHey Bettie,
Just trying to catch up and read some posts before I go on my trip. Wish I could pack you in my suitcase! I’m really looking forward to it. I’ve been reading back through some of your posts, being away for a while as you know, and I just want to say, WOW, you really have some great insight going on here. From when you started, you are really peeling back the onion and getting down to some important things. Great job! There are so many things that you are saying that are true, but the ones that stick out to me is that we do deserve good things and we are worth it! As you know, I’ve been going down that path too, and I am really starting to like me! No more victim! I usually try to smile on the outside, but now, I’m starting to smile from the inside. Very refreshing. Soooo, the long and short of it is that you seem so, so much better than when you started here and are doing an excellent job. When people say negative things to me, I trying to take a saying that my sassy middle daughter says, "Hmmmmm, let me see if I care what you think, (pause, pause), NO I DON"T." If someone says negative things to me, why the heck would I want to have them around. Ok, family may be different and that’s a whole other issue and may be harder to deal with, but people off the street, whatever!
Hang in there. You are making excellent progress. I’ll stay strong on my trip. I deserve a better life and so do you!You can do anything if you put your mind to it! Have great day! – DDHi Bettie,
Sounds like you have had some struggles lately too. I’ve not been doing well for the last month or two. I haven’t been here to fess up either, but started again yesterday. Funny thing about it all, though, is that the mess made me realize what I have been running and escaping from. It is still going to be a long journey, but what I’ve taken out of it is very valuable. Soooo, long and short of it, we can get back to where we want to be. To me, its a matter of facing my "demons" and then figuring out how to get past them. I’m relying on the Big Dude upstairs who watches out for us to help me with it. I don’t think I would have made it this far if I didn’t still have some positives to offer people.
Well, that’s my story for now. I’m going to try to get back on chat this weekend. Hope to see you then.You can do anything if you put your mind to it! Have great day! – DDHallo Colleen,
Wat leuk dat je deze site hebt gevonden! Ik ben hier sinds januari en de site, met al deze geweldige mensen, heeft me echt geholpen om een ommekeer in mijn leven te maken. Jij kunt het ook. Fijn dat je er bent en profiteer van de chats en berichten. Het maakt echt een verschil en ik weet zeker dat je hier echte hulp zult vinden bij je herstel! Je kunt alles doen als je er maar voor gaat! Fijne dag! – DDTere Colleen,
Mul on nii hea meel, et leidsite selle saidi! Olen siin olnud alates jaanuarist ja see sait koos kõigi nende imeliste inimestega on aidanud mul oma elus kannapöörde teha. Saate ka seda teha. Tore, et olete siin ja kasutage vestluste ja postituste eeliseid. See muudab tõesti midagi ja olen kindel, et leiate siit oma taastumisel tõelist abi! Kui mõtlete, saate teha kõike! Ilusat päeva! – DDSalut Colleen,
Je suis tellement content que vous ayez trouvé ce site! Je suis ici depuis janvier, et le site, avec toutes ces personnes formidables, m'a vraiment aidé à faire un virage dans ma vie. Tu peux le faire aussi. Heureux que vous soyez ici et que vous profitiez des discussions et des publications. Cela fait vraiment une différence et je suis sûr que vous trouverez ici une aide réelle pour votre rétablissement ! Vous pouvez tout faire si vous y réfléchissez ! Passez une bonne journée! – DDOi Colleen,
Estou tão feliz que você encontrou este site! Estou aqui desde janeiro, e o site, com todas essas pessoas maravilhosas, realmente me ajudou a dar uma guinada na minha vida. Você também pode fazer isso. Que bom que você está aqui e aproveite os chats e as postagens. Isso realmente faz a diferença e tenho certeza que você encontrará ajuda real aqui com a sua recuperação! Você pode fazer qualquer coisa se se empenhar! Tenha um ótimo dia! – DDXin chào Colleen,
Tôi rất vui vì bạn đã tìm thấy trang web này! Tôi đã ở đây từ tháng Giêng, và trang web, với tất cả những người tuyệt vời này đã thực sự giúp tôi tạo ra bước ngoặt trong cuộc đời mình. Bạn cũng có thể làm được. Rất vui khi bạn ở đây và tận dụng các cuộc trò chuyện và đăng bài. Nó thực sự tạo ra sự khác biệt và tôi chắc chắn rằng bạn sẽ tìm thấy sự trợ giúp thực sự ở đây trong quá trình khôi phục của bạn! Bạn có thể làm bất cứ điều gì nếu bạn đặt tâm trí vào nó! Chúc một ngày tốt lành! – ĐĐਹੈਲੋ ਕੋਲੀਨ,
ਮੈਂ ਬਹੁਤ ਖੁਸ਼ ਹਾਂ ਕਿ ਤੁਹਾਨੂੰ ਇਹ ਸਾਈਟ ਮਿਲੀ ਹੈ! ਮੈਂ ਜਨਵਰੀ ਤੋਂ ਇੱਥੇ ਹਾਂ, ਅਤੇ ਸਾਈਟ, ਇਨ੍ਹਾਂ ਸਾਰੇ ਸ਼ਾਨਦਾਰ ਲੋਕਾਂ ਨਾਲ ਸੱਚਮੁੱਚ ਮੇਰੀ ਜ਼ਿੰਦਗੀ ਵਿੱਚ ਇੱਕ ਮੋੜ ਲਿਆਉਣ ਵਿੱਚ ਮੇਰੀ ਸਹਾਇਤਾ ਕੀਤੀ ਹੈ. ਤੁਸੀਂ ਇਹ ਵੀ ਕਰ ਸਕਦੇ ਹੋ. ਖੁਸ਼ੀ ਹੈ ਕਿ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਇੱਥੇ ਹੋ ਅਤੇ ਗੱਲਬਾਤ ਅਤੇ ਪੋਸਟਿੰਗ ਦਾ ਲਾਭ ਉਠਾਓ. ਇਹ ਸੱਚਮੁੱਚ ਇੱਕ ਫਰਕ ਪਾਉਂਦਾ ਹੈ ਅਤੇ ਮੈਨੂੰ ਯਕੀਨ ਹੈ ਕਿ ਤੁਹਾਨੂੰ ਆਪਣੀ ਰਿਕਵਰੀ ਵਿੱਚ ਇੱਥੇ ਅਸਲ ਸਹਾਇਤਾ ਮਿਲੇਗੀ! ਜੇ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਇਸ 'ਤੇ ਆਪਣਾ ਮਨ ਲਗਾਉਂਦੇ ਹੋ ਤਾਂ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਕੁਝ ਵੀ ਕਰ ਸਕਦੇ ਹੋ! ਤੁਹਾਡਾ ਦਿਨ ਬਹੁਤ ਵਧੀਆ ਹੋਵੇ! – ਡੀਡੀBună Colleen,
Mă bucur atât de mult că ai găsit acest site! Sunt aici din ianuarie, iar site-ul, împreună cu toți acești oameni minunați, m-au ajutat cu adevărat să fac o întoarcere în viața mea. O poți face și tu. Mă bucur că sunteți aici și profitați de chaturi și postări. Chiar face o diferență și sunt sigur că veți găsi un ajutor real aici pentru recuperarea dvs. Puteți face orice dacă vă gândiți la asta! Sa ai o zi buna! – DD