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Γεια σου Χάρι:
Το όνομα οθόνης μου είναι Cully21. Χαίρομαι πολύ που σε γνωρίζω. Συμφωνίες για την εύρεση αυτού του ιστότοπου και της κοινότητας. Συνεχίστε να δημοσιεύετε και μείνετε συνδεδεμένοι. Θα βρείτε πολλούς πόρους εδώ. Αν κοιτάξετε στα δεξιά της οθόνης, θα δείτε το UNMODERATED CHAT που είναι ανοιχτό. Μπορείτε να κάνετε κλικ εκεί και να δείτε αν υπάρχει κάποιος εκεί. Αν όχι, πιθανότατα θα εμφανιστεί κάποιος. Υπάρχουν επίσης πολλές ομάδες που συναντιούνται κατά τη διάρκεια της εβδομάδας. Αυτό το νήμα είναι υπέροχο για εσάς καθώς είστε επίσημος νέος ενήλικας. Όπως πρότεινε ο Larry, η ενότητα κάτω των 21 ετών θα ενισχύσει επίσης την υποστήριξή σας. Το να παραμείνετε συνδεδεμένοι με τα δύο κεφάλια και να παρακολουθείτε τόσες πολλές συνομιλίες και ομάδες είναι μια καλή αρχή. Όσο περισσότερα μοιράζεστε, τόσο περισσότερο μπορούμε να συγκεντρωθούμε όλοι μαζί. Είμαι επίσης CG. Καθαρίστε τώρα τις τελευταίες 12 εβδομάδες.
Ο Θεός να ευλογεί,
Cully21Olá Harry:
Meu nome de tela é Cully21. É muito bom te conhecer. Parabéns por encontrar este site e comunidade. Continue postando e fique conectado. Você encontrará muitos recursos aqui. Se você olhar para a direita da tela, verá CHAT NÃO MODERADO que está aberto. Você pode clicar lá e ver se alguém está lá. Caso contrário, é mais provável que alguém apareça. Existem também vários grupos que se reúnem durante a semana. Este tópico é ótimo para você, pois você é um jovem adulta oficial. Como Larry sugeriu, a seção para menores de 21 anos também aumentará seu apoio. Manter-se conectado a ambas as competições e participar de tantos chats e grupos é um ótimo começo. Quanto mais você compartilha, mais podemos nos unir. Eu também sou CG. Limpe agora nas últimas 12 semanas.
Deus abençoe,
Cully21Tere, Harry:
Minu ekraaninimi on Cully21. Väga tore on teiega kohtuda. Palju õnne selle saidi ja kogukonna leidmisel. Jätkake postitamist ja olge ühenduses. Siit leiate palju ressursse. Kui vaatate ekraani paremale, näete avatud MODEERIMATA VESTLUST. Võite seal klõpsata ja vaadata, kas keegi on seal. Kui ei, ilmub keegi suure tõenäosusega kohale. Nädala jooksul koguneb ka palju rühmi. See teema on teie jaoks suurepärane, kuna olete ametlik noor lisand. Nagu Larry soovitas, suurendab alla 21 -aastane jaotis ka teie tuge. Mõlema juhtkonnaga ühenduses püsimine ning võimalikult paljude vestluste ja gruppide külastamine on suurepärane algus. Mida rohkem jagate, seda rohkem saame kõik kokku tõmmata. Olen ka CG. Puhastage nüüd viimased 12 nädalat.
Jumal õnnistagu,
Cully21Hi Harry:
My screen name is Cully21. It is very nice to meet you. Congradulatons of finding this site and community. Keep posting and stay connected. You will find many resources here. If you look to the right of the screen, you will see UNMODERATED CHAT that is open. You can click on there and see if anyone is there. If not, someone will more than likely show up. There are also numerous groups that meet during the week. This thread is great for you as you are an official young addult. Like Larry suggested, the under 21 section will enhance your support as well. Staying connected to both trheads and attending as many chats and groups is a great start. The more you share, the more we can all pull together. I am a CG also. Clean now for the last 12 weeks.
God Bless,
Cully21こんにちはハリー：
私のスクリーンネームはCully21です。はじめまして。このサイトとコミュニティを見つけたおめでとうございます。投稿を続け、接続を維持します。ここには多くのリソースがあります。画面の右側を見ると、開いているモデレートされていないチャットが表示されます。そこをクリックして、誰かがそこにいるかどうかを確認できます。そうでなければ、誰かが現れる可能性が高いでしょう。週の間に集まる多くのグループもあります。あなたは公式の若い大人なので、このスレッドはあなたにとって素晴らしいです。ラリーが提案したように、21歳未満のセクションもあなたのサポートを強化します。両方のtrheadとの接続を維持し、多くのチャットやグループに参加することは素晴らしいスタートです。共有すればするほど、私たち全員が集まることができます。私もCGです。過去12週間は今すぐ掃除してください。
神のご加護を、
カリー21ہیلو ہیری:
میری سکرین کا نام Cully21 ہے۔ آپ سے مل کر بہت اچھا لگا۔ اس سائٹ اور کمیونٹی کو ڈھونڈنے کے لیے مبارکباد۔ پوسٹ کرتے رہیں اور جڑے رہیں۔ آپ کو یہاں بہت سے وسائل ملیں گے۔ اگر آپ اسکرین کے دائیں طرف دیکھیں گے تو آپ کو غیر موڈ چیٹ نظر آئے گی جو کھلی ہے۔ آپ وہاں کلک کر سکتے ہیں اور دیکھ سکتے ہیں کہ کوئی وہاں ہے۔ اگر نہیں تو ، کوئی زیادہ امکان ظاہر کرے گا۔ ایسے کئی گروپ بھی ہیں جو ہفتے کے دوران ملتے ہیں۔ یہ تھریڈ آپ کے لیے بہت اچھا ہے کیونکہ آپ آفیشل جوان ہیں۔ جیسا کہ لیری نے تجویز کیا ، انڈر 21 سیکشن آپ کی مدد کو بھی بڑھا دے گا۔ دونوں ٹریڈس سے جڑے رہنا اور زیادہ سے زیادہ چیٹس اور گروپس میں شرکت ایک بہترین شروعات ہے۔ جتنا آپ شئیر کریں گے ، اتنا ہی ہم سب مل کر کھینچ سکتے ہیں۔ میں بھی سی جی ہوں۔ پچھلے 12 ہفتوں سے ابھی صاف کریں۔
خدا بھلا کرے،
گلی 21۔Hi Bettie:
I am a Christian. Whether I am good or not is up to God and others perceptions I guess. From my faith and point of view, we all fall short and all sinners. Christ did not come to save the saved, he came to save the lost. More than likely you will find this lady has a lot in common with you and is growing daily just like you.
I am not bragging, but my faith could have been broken a long time ago. But in an odd way, I know God and Jesus have been right beside me the whole time. They give me free will to follow them or to turn and seek my own ways of the flesh. What a merciful God we have to love a wretch like me.
The bible is full of people who made mistakes. Look at King David. He lusted after another man’s wife, laid with her, got her pregnant, and then had her husband, who was faithul to the king, murdered. David payed dearly for the consequences of his sin never went away. But he confessed and repented and God took care of him.
I highyly doubt this lady will be judemental of you. In fact, she will probably relate to you more than you think. If you have ever prayed to God and Jesus, I assure you you will get an answer my friend. Pehaps this is one resource he is sending you with his love.
To my friend who accepts me the way I am as I do her,
God Bless,
Cully21Happy anniversary Larry.
Thanks for being who you are. I am 12 weeks clean and it went by kind of fast. Almost a 1/4 of a year.
God Bless my Friend,
Cully21Hi Bettie:
I will be on chat this weekend so maybe goofy ol Cully from Texas can make you laugh. I always enjoy your comapany.
I am in a quote mood today. Below is some lyrics from an old Molly Hatchet song "Fall of the Peacmakers."
"A wise man told me there is something you should know. The way you judge a man is you look into his soul. And you’ll soon see everything."
I have looked into your soul Bettie. You are a beuatiful person.
God Bless,
Cully21Hi Bettie:
I am sorry to hear about the slip but it is so glad you came right back here. Coming back is not an easy task at all. Been there, done that, and have several t-shirts to prove it. I remember you on chat the other day. I have done the same thing. I have got on group, brought up the urges, got good advice, and as you said, "the greenlight went on." For me, it seem like the more I learn and the more I utilize this site and community, the deeper the remorse is after a relapse or slip.
How far is this casino you went too? You know about my history and how far I have travelled for the fix. All casinos I have been too the last year have been Indian casinos. I have never seeen a sign or advertisment for self banning. I have alwways had to ask security at the help desk But don’t take this as the protocul for each one. To ban from some that I have not banned yet require you to go to a seperate location, such as the individual tribal commission itself or the person who does it works normal day and week hours. The best thing if you plan to ban is to call ahead and find out what the procedure is and so you can plan it out.
I am glad you are here. Two months is something to be very happy about.
One of the best tool I have for my pain is a device called a TENZ unit. They work for some and not so much for others. Mine is an Empi brand which can be kind of expensive. You might find one on ebay or a home health supplier might rent them out after giving propper directions of how to use it. You dont want to put it directly over your spine, major arter, heart, and of course, your brain. It has sure saved me when I have taken meds to the max.
It is good to seey you recovering. Look at your thread since you first came here and you coming right back here shows your tenacity to succeed.
Your friend and brother in arms,
Cully21In relation to your 1 year milstone, I must give you a Wooohooo in my own way Kathryn.
From Texas:
YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEHAAAAAAAAAAWWW!!!!
Thank you for your kind post too.
Cully21Stay strong Bettie. Good for you for getting on here and posting about the urges. That is a good thing.
Cully21Hi Bettie. I hope you are doing well. I read your previous post about that guy who won at a banned casino and isnt getting the money. This is something I have brought up time and time again of part of the risks of gambling in a banned casion. I have read post from others before gambling at banned casinos where the casino did not care. I guranatee you they will care when you go to cash in a signifcant jack pot. They are not going to let you walk away with those kind of winnings when they have a signed banning document from you.
I am glad you posted about it. Even if you manage to sneak into a banned casino, there are consequences. I have thought about it before, but will not go to a banned casnino for sure. No matter how seriously or non-seriously they act about the ban.
Like you said about the guy, he now faces tresspasing charges. It’s a misadmenor, but like you said with embarrassment, I wouldnt want it on my record when I go to apply for a job.
It is imortant that we remember there are consequences to self-banning not matter what.
God Bless,
Cully21Hi Larry.
I would have sworn that I sent you a post this mornig. I think I did. I hope that it did not offend you. It was deep and emotional but no offense was intended. I don’t know if I nuked it or removed it. Please let me know and I stay away from the subject.
God Bless,
Cully21Hi Larry:
I contemplated your post and remember you speaking in the past about your relationship. I can only imagine the pain. I hope I am not overstepping my bounds, but is there any chance for any reconciliation with your children? Any attempts?
Charile mentioned to me the other day that there are two types of recovering GA’s. Those who talk the talk and those who walk the walk. I regret I have not always walked the walk. But you, you my friend, my brother, you are walking the walk. My compliments may not be much, but I am so proud of you and I know I am not the only one.
Is there anyway of attempting contact?
I was rejected from my children at times when they grew up. Still am at times. There would be times when my daughter would have and event and say it was no big deal or she didn’t want me to go, but I went as much as possible.
I came to a conclusion that was painful sometimes. This is strictly from my persspective for me.
I decided it is best for me to be there and be rejected at times, rather than not being there at all.
I am not saying by any means that this has or is a painless proccess, but it is something I did my best to do.
This was also something I told my kids mother when she made her first suicide attempt. She had changed and you could say she pursued things that non-verbally showed the kids that she had rejected them for someone or something else. Oh how I prayed for reconciliaton between her and the kids. I tried to be mediator. I ended up with both sides mad at me. I would have the girls mad at me for trying to foster communiation and getting more involved with their mother, and their mother accusing me that I turned the kids against them. I did no such thing. I tried telling her how much damage was done with their relationship and that reonciliation would take time, and if she would show constiancy there was a chance. Oh how I wanted to see that consitancy. I really did. She never stabalized and it never came. Suicide was the ultimate abandonment. I dont mean any disrespect to her, but that is what it was. Then I blindly walked down a road turning from my resposnsibilities.
All I know is wheter in my lifetime or after I pass, I hope they know I tried. I really am. I hope I was everything I was supposed to be when I pass.
One message I will leave my kids when that day comes is that I forgive them of any transgressions and do not hold any guilt. I will be in Heaven waiting for them. All of my family accepted Jesus as their Savior. This was always my wish if I had one wish. I want them to forgive me too. The son of God paid for my sins and yours over 2,000 years ago. And I honestly believe if it was only me or you who would accept him and be saved 2,000 years later, he still would have done it. I know this. From your posts and tones I suspect you have done this and taken this free gift of grace. If not, I wish you would. I would like to meet you in Heaven someday. No hurts. No worries.
Anway, I did not mean to type a long deep post. I hope and pray it has cuased you no pain. As long as you are alive, there is hope for reonciliation. It could happen. You have been getting yourself right for the past 8 months. I pray you are rewarded for that.
I just care about you. I hope I have not overstepped my bounds.
God Bless,
Cully21