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हाय स्टीवी और मंच पर आपका स्वागत है। कैसीनो में जाने के बारे में कैसे? अपना कैश और कार्ड घर पर छोड़ दें और उनसे आपको बाहर करने के लिए कहें।
यह एक अच्छी शुरुआत होगी लेकिन यह महसूस करना महत्वपूर्ण है कि इस लत का कोई "इलाज" नहीं है। आपको निरंतर समर्थन की आवश्यकता है। यह मदद करेगा यदि आप अपने पति के साथ ईमानदार हो सकती हैं ताकि आपको छिपना न पड़े और *** उस समर्थन का उपयोग करना पड़े। ईमानदार होने का मतलब यह होगा कि धन तक आपकी पहुंच को सीमित करने के लिए अगले वेतन-दिवस की चीजें पहले से ही रखी जा सकती हैं। जीए मीटिगन्स भी मदद करेंगे और फिर से ईमानदार नहीं होने से उन्हें प्राप्त करना कठिन हो जाएगा। पोस्ट करते रहें और हमें बताएं कि आप क्या सकारात्मक कदम उठा रहे हैं।Merhaba Stevie ve foruma hoş geldiniz. Kumarhaneye gitmeye ne dersin? Nakit paranızı ve kartlarınızı evde bırakın ve sizi dışlamalarını isteyin.
Bu iyi bir başlangıç olurdu, ancak bu bağımlılığın "tedavisi" olmadığını anlamak önemlidir. Sürekli desteğe ihtiyacınız var. Bu desteği kullanmak için saklanmak zorunda kalmamak için kocana karşı dürüst olabilirsen yardımı olur. Dürüst olmak, aynı zamanda, fonlara erişiminizi sınırlamak için bir sonraki maaş günü şeylerin zaten uygulanabileceği anlamına gelir. GA toplantıları da yardımcı olacaktır ve yine dürüst olmamak onlara ulaşmayı zorlaştıracaktır. Göndermeye devam edin ve hangi olumlu adımları attığınızı bize bildirin.Hi Steevie and welcome to the forum. How about goping to the casino? Leave your cash and cards at home and ask for them to exclude you.
That would be a good start but its important to realize that there ios no "cure" for this addiciton. You need ongoing support. It would help if you could be honest with your husband so that you don’t have to hide and *** to use that support. Being honest would alos mean that nexct payday things can already be put in place to limit your access to funds. GA meetigns would help as well and again not being honest would make it harder to get to them. Keep posting and let us know what positive steps you are taking.Ciao Stevie e benvenuto nel forum. Che ne dici di andare al casinò? Lascia a casa contanti e carte e chiedi loro di escluderti.
Sarebbe un buon inizio, ma è importante rendersi conto che non esiste una "cura" per questa dipendenza. Hai bisogno di un supporto continuo. Aiuterebbe se potessi essere onesta con tuo marito in modo da non doverti nascondere e scopare per usare quel supporto. Essere onesti significherebbe anche che il prossimo giorno di paga può già essere messo in atto per limitare il tuo accesso ai fondi. Anche le riunioni di GA sarebbero d'aiuto e, ancora una volta, non essere onesti renderebbe più difficile raggiungerli. Continua a postare e facci sapere quali passi positivi stai facendo.Hi Kathryn, well done on recognizing the reasons why your partner reacted like he did. Also well done on changing things around to stop this happening again.
I think your post really underlines the importance of telling partners etc about ALL debts/bills etc (please dont take that the wrong way, Im not suggesting you deliberately hid things) as your story shows an undisclosed debt that later crops up can damage trust that has been built up. Even if, as in your case, you have been doing everything right and not gambling etc keep posting kathrynHi Kathryn, well done on your gamble free time.
"….it was more of a ‘well, ok, its done’, time to go to work….."
Isn’t that great? It’s good when recovery just becomes a way of life. 🙂An excellent achievement Kathryn, one day at a time can achieve great things.
Hi bettie, maybe see you in the chat later.
Hi Bettie, here’s a question for you. What have you got to lose by trying GA as your friend suggests?
Coalminer, well done on not going to gamble with your friend. Next time it would be better not to say you are "too busy" though or to make any other excuse. If you do that then there is no reason for her to stop asking you in the future. "I have decided to stop gambling" is a better response. You don’t have to go into details, I just tell people i got fed up with losing. You won’t have to say it more than a few times before she stops asking you to go with her. If she is a real friend then there will be plenty of other things you can do together.Hi Larry, my condolensces on the loss of your brotehr. Stay strong in your own recovery. Keep posting
WTG Kathryn, a day at a time can achieve great things.
Lol thats funny – just hope it wasn’t Damain who drank it!
Здравей Пол, да, мисля, че това беше едно от основните неща, които взех от първата си среща – историите за успеха в стаята ми показаха, че отново имам надежда, мога да спра да залагам. Няколко часа седмично на среща с приятели сега е малка цена, която трябва да платите за цял живот при възстановяване. Добър пост.
Szia Paul, igen, azt hiszem, ez volt az egyik legfontosabb dolog, amit az első találkozásom alkalmából vettem – a terem sikertörténetei azt mutatták, hogy ismét van reményem, abba tudom hagyni a szerencsejátékot. Heti pár óra egy találkozón, most a barátokkal, kis ár, amit egy egész életen át kell fizetni a felépülésben. Jó poszt.
Привет, Пол, да, я думаю, это была одна из главных вещей, которые я вынес из моей первой встречи – истории успеха в комнате показали мне, что у меня снова появилась надежда, что я могу перестать играть в азартные игры. Пару часов в неделю на встречах с друзьями – это небольшая плата за всю жизнь, проведенную в выздоровлении. Хороший пост.