[ChloeB]

Sorry it’s been a while. Things have been good for a few weeks. Thanks so much to those who have posted. Tonight he said he was going to a meeting but then I saw on his Facebook that his mate had checked him into a pub. He is strongly denying this has occurred and his mate checked him before he got there!!! The thing I am most bothered about is the lies again. It’s been a hot day and if he said he wasn’t going then I would have coped with that. Us brits need to make the most of the sun. But he insists he went and doesn’t know why his mate put that? Well I know I have never tagged someone in a pub who wasn’t with me! So again, I feel completely destroyed. I have supported him and wanted to believe him when he has said he is trying. If I stay with him, is this my life? The thing is, I don’t even think he has been gambling, just lieing about his intentions and commitment. How can I believe anything he says anymore. I don’t want this for my life, but I love him. He is still denying it and making me doubt myself..but I think I know the answer xx

[ChloeB]

Hiya. Thank you both for your advice. I’m really just struggling to keep myself together at the moment. I know that people have been through a lot more than me, I’m just in shock and heart broken. Thanks again, I will keep posting, I just need some time. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed x

[ChloeB]

Hiya. Thanks so much for your reply. It’s helped me confirm some of my doubts. All my finances are in my name only, I just trusted him to have my pin number. He no longer has access to my cards or pin numbers. I worry about him taking out loans etc in my name but I’m not sure what I can do about that.
He says he is going to GA meeting tonight but if I’m honest, I don’t believe he will or he will lie and tell me he has.
What’s breaking my heart the most is that we should be getting married in Dec and my family have welcomed him in and love him. Of all places, we are getting married in las vegas!! I just feel like I’m being taken as an idiot or an easy way of getting money. He swears he has never gambled like that before or stole money etc etc but I just don’t believe him. I love him so much but I’m so angry and hurt and I just don’t know if I am strong enough to do this after reading a lot of the other forum posts. Thanks again for your reply

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