[charles]

Здравейте, в една от тези удобни групи говорихме за важността на положителните постижения, затова обещах да увелича това. Просто изберете един или два и ги направете. Всички те са положителни и всички постижими. Не попадайте в капана да се опитвате да ги направите всичко наведнъж – дори и светец не би могъл да направи това и важното е да ги постигнем, а не да се настроим за нов провал.

[charles]

Γεια, σε μια από τις ομάδες που ήταν ομοιόμορφη μιλούσαμε για τη σημασία των θετικών επιτευγμάτων, οπότε υποσχέθηκα ότι θα το αντιμετωπίσω. Απλά επιλέξτε ένα ή δύο και κάντε τα. Είναι όλα θετικά και όλα εφικτά. Μην πέσετε στην παγίδα να προσπαθήσετε να τα κάνετε όλα ταυτόχρονα – ούτε καν ένας άγιος δεν θα μπορούσε να το κάνει αυτό και το σημαντικό είναι να τα πετύχουμε, όχι να προετοιμαστούμε για άλλη αποτυχία.

[charles]

Olá, em um dos grupos deste evento estávamos falando sobre a importância de realizações positivas, então prometi aumentar isso. Basta escolher um ou dois e executá-los. Eles são todos positivos e alcançáveis. Não caia na armadilha de tentar fazer tudo de uma vez – nem mesmo um santo poderia fazer isso e o importante é alcançá-los, não nos preparar para outro fracasso.

[charles]

Sziasztok, az egyik csoportban ezen az estén a pozitív eredmények fontosságáról beszélgettünk, ezért megígértem, hogy ezt felvetem. Csak válasszon egyet vagy kettőt, és végezze el őket. Ezek mind pozitívak és mind megvalósíthatók. Ne essünk abba a csapdába, hogy megpróbáljuk mindet egyszerre végrehajtani – ezt még egy szent sem tudta megtenni, és a legfontosabb az, hogy elérjük őket, és ne készüljünk újabb kudarcra.

[charles]

Hej, i en af grupperne denne evenign talte vi om vigtigheden af positive præstationer, så jeg lovede at støde op på dette. Vælg bare en eller to og gør dem. De er alle positive og alle opnåelige. Fald dog ikke i fælden med at prøve at gøre dem alle på én gang – ikke engang en helgen kunne gøre det, og det vigtige er at opnå dem, ikke stille os op til endnu en fiasko.

[charles]

Sveiki, vienā no šīs grupas grupām mēs runājām par pozitīvu sasniegumu nozīmi, tāpēc es apsolīju to pacelt. Vienkārši izvēlieties vienu vai divus un dariet tos. Tie visi ir pozitīvi un visi sasniedzami. Neiekrītiet slazdā, mēģinot tos paveikt uzreiz – pat svētais to nevarēja izdarīt, un galvenais ir tos sasniegt, nevis sevi noregulēt citai neveiksmei.

[charles]

こんにちは、この平等なグループの1つで、前向きな成果の重要性について話していたので、これを上げることを約束しました。 1つまたは2つを選んで実行してください。それらはすべて前向きで、すべて達成可能です。しかし、一度にすべてをやろうとする罠に陥らないでください。聖人でさえそれを行うことはできません。重要なことは、別の失敗に備えるのではなく、それらを達成することです。

[charles]

안녕하세요, 오늘 저녁 한 그룹에서 우리는 긍정적인 성취의 중요성에 대해 이야기하고 있었기 때문에 이것을 강조하기로 약속했습니다. 한두개만 골라서 하시면 됩니다. 그것들은 모두 긍정적이고 모두 달성 가능합니다. 모든 것을 한꺼번에 하려고 하는 함정에 빠지지 마십시오. 성인도 그렇게 할 수 없으며 중요한 것은 그것을 달성하는 것이지, 또 다른 실패를 준비하지 않는 것입니다.

[charles]

Tere, me rääkisime sel õhtul ühes rühmas positiivsete saavutuste tähtsusest, nii et lubasin selle üles ajada. Valige lihtsalt üks või kaks ja tehke neid. Kõik need on positiivsed ja kõik on saavutatavad. Kuid ärge langege lõksu, kui proovite neid kõiki korraga teha – isegi pühak ei saaks seda teha ja oluline on need saavutada, mitte seadistada end uueks ebaõnnestumiseks.

[charles]

Bok, u jednoj od ovih evenign grupa govorili smo o važnosti pozitivnih postignuća pa sam obećao da ću ovo povećati. Samo odaberite jednu ili dvije i učinite to. Svi su oni pozitivni i svi su ostvarivi. Ipak, nemojte upasti u zamku pokušavajući učiniti sve odjednom – čak ni svetac to ne bi mogao učiniti, a važno je postići ih, a ne postaviti se za novi neuspjeh.

[charles]

Good realisation Epicurean,

It’s all part of the addiction – not just the act of gambling but also the planning of bets, the scheming to get money, the buzz, the risk etc etc

Start that thread in the My Journal Froum, you can get a lot of feedback and support there, tell us a little more about your own gambling and situation.

[charles]

Thanks for bringing this back up to the top Epicurean. It’s certainly a topic that provides food for thought.

Whilst these auctions sites aren’t necessarily gambling they can certainly get those gambling juices flowing. Even the language is similar – people refer to their bid “winning” the item for example.

I’ve certainyl seen CGs develop a problem with these sites. they buy things just to try and sell at a profit, is this betting on them? Someone was talking about his buying and selling at a GA meetign I was at recently. At one stage he even said something like:
” I don’t really care whether I make a profit or not”

Again this is extemely similar to gambling addiction as in the end it’s not winning or losing that we want – it’s just the “action”.

Anyone else have any thoughts on this?

[charles]

Hi Jack,

You might get a few of those dreams. I certainly used to. They do gt less frequent though do remain as vivid.

I’m no expert but my own personal opinion is that dreams are a good thing. Gambling has been such a big part of our lives that it is bound to remain there in our subconscious, if the only way it can get out nowadays is in our dreams, as opposed to in reality, then I would say that’s agood thing! 🙂

[charles]

Hi Kensakus,

Well done on the steps you have taken. Keep up your meetings and keep posting. One day at a time is all any of us need to do.

[charles]

Hi Jack,

You may have wrote that with sadness but I have read it with a slight smile.

Awareness and self honesty are important in recovery – you have shown both. You are aware that at this moment in time it’s not a good idea to watch the World Cup and honest enough to admit that to yourself and take precautions, so well done.

Will you never be able to watch football again? Maybe, maybe not. I know in the early days I had to have a few things in place before I coudl watch a game, now I just enjoy being a football fan again. As you progress along your recovery road this will be somethign you will need to be honest with yourself about in the future.

For now, well done and keep doing whatever it takes to not place your next bet, one day at a time.

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