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Salut Izzy, Lisez ce que vous postiez en haut de ce fil, il y a peu de temps quand vous pensiez que vous perdiez votre b/f. La confiance était le plus gros problème, donc mon conseil serait d'être aussi ouvert que possible maintenant. Si vous voulez un accès plus facile à une petite somme d'argent, il n'y a toujours aucune raison pour que vous ne soyez pas responsable de la façon dont elle est dépensée. Si vous en avez besoin en cas d'urgence, vous pouvez lui montrer le réceptacle pour cette urgence. Vous avez déjà arrêté de jouer et avez cessé de publier ici. J'espère que vous en tirerez des leçons et que vous continuerez à utiliser l'aide pour maintenir votre rétablissement. Continuez à poster et dites-nous comment cette discussion avec votre b/f s'est déroulée.
नमस्ते इज़ी, इस धागे के शीर्ष पर आप जो पोस्ट कर रहे थे उसे पढ़ें, बस कुछ समय पहले जब आपको लगा कि आप अपना बी / एफ खो रहे हैं। विश्वास सबसे बड़ा मुद्दा था इसलिए मेरी सलाह होगी कि जितना हो सके उतना खुला रहें। यदि आप एक छोटी सी राशि तक आसान पहुंच चाहते हैं तो फिर भी कोई कारण नहीं है कि आप इसे कैसे खर्च किया जाए, इसके लिए आप जवाबदेह नहीं हो सकते। अगर आपको किसी आपात स्थिति में इसकी आवश्यकता है तो आप उसे उस आपात स्थिति के लिए नुस्खा दिखा सकते हैं। आपने पहले जुआ खेलना बंद कर दिया और फिर यहां पोस्ट करना बंद कर दिया – मुझे आशा है कि आप इससे सीखेंगे और अपनी वसूली को बनाए रखने के लिए समर्थन का उपयोग करते रहेंगे। पोस्ट करते रहें और हमें बताएं कि आपके b/f के साथ यह चर्चा कैसी रही।
Oi Izzy, Leia o que você postou no topo deste tópico, há pouco tempo, quando você pensou que estava perdendo seu b / f. A confiança era o maior problema, então meu conselho seria ser o mais aberto possível agora. Se você deseja ter acesso mais fácil a uma pequena quantia de dinheiro do que ainda não há razão para não poder ser responsabilizado por como ele é gasto. Se você precisar em uma emergência, mostre a ele o receptáculo para essa emergência. Você parou de jogar antes e depois parou de postar aqui – espero que você aprenda com isso e continue usando o suporte para manter sua recuperação. Continue postando e deixe-nos saber como foi essa discussão com seu b / f.
Hi Izzy,
Read up to what you were posting at the top of this thread, jsut a shjort time ago when you thought you were losing your b/f.
Trust was the biggest issue so my advie would be to be as open as you can now. If you want easier access to a small sum of money thne there is still no reason why you can’t be accountable for how it is spent. If you need it in an emergency then you can show him the recept for that emergency.
You stopped gambling before and trhen stopped posting here – I hope you learn from that and keep using support to maintain your recovery.
Keep posting and let us know how that discussion with your b/f went.
Szia Izzy! Olvasd el, mit írtál a téma tetején, de egy rövid idővel ezelőtt, amikor azt hitted, elveszíted a b/f -edet. A bizalom volt a legnagyobb probléma, ezért azt szeretném, ha a lehető legnyitottabbak lennénk. Ha egy kisebb összeghez szeretne könnyebb hozzáférést elérni, még mindig nincs ok arra, hogy miért ne számoljon el elköltésével. Ha vészhelyzetben szüksége van rá, akkor megmutathatja neki a vészhelyzet receptjét. Korábban abbahagyta a szerencsejátékot, és trhen abbahagyta az ide való közzétételt – remélem, tanul ebből, és továbbra is támogatást használ a felépülés fenntartásához. Folytassa a bejegyzéseket, és tudassa velünk, hogyan zajlott ez a beszélgetés a b/f -vel.
Well done on coming here so quickly SJ. Get to your other support too of course, start doing that talking.
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