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  • in reply to: A New Life #12088
    cat438
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    Debbie, okay, is the purple a nice strong purple, not a light one.  If so I will stop bugging you about red paint LOL  Our house is painted all neutral safe colours (boring).  I got a dark colour for one of the walls in the living room, one of the sampler size.  Hubby painted it and said there was no way he was painting the wall that colour.  It was a really really dark blue.  He said it was black.  Anyway, he painted the sampler right in the middle of the the wall and it was there for ages.  Everyone who came in asked about it, and he proceeded to tell them that I wanted to paint the wall that colour.  It is now back to safe neutral. I am now using accents of cushions, ornaments to add some colour to the house.  I did not admit to him ever that it was too dark, but he was right LOL  It was actually a designer that suggested the colour to me to help tie everything together.  I think I like nice bright cheery colours.  Have a great gamble free day!!!!One day at a time my sweet lord…

    in reply to: April – ODAAT – ALL Welcome #10859
    cat438
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    WTG… RG – You should be proud of yourself that is awesome!!!  I am noticing the difference on here for April.  It seems to me that there is a more upbeat feeling.  I know it is only the beginning of the month, however, I love it.  I love your post Ican "how sometimes when things are falling apart they may actually be falling into place".  I am going to suggest that we try if possible to pledge each day to have a gamble free day… and add something positive, for example, I will ***** my blessings today or a positive saying.  We are in recovery and I know I want a gamble free life.  I am able to say that some days, and yet others I can’t.  I know there are good days and bad days.  We also get the thoughts and urges that come and we feel as if we can’t fight them any more, but all we need to do is get through one day.  It can be done minute by minute, hour by hour, but we can do it.  I do not plan on gambling today.  I hope everyone has a wonderful gamble free day. One day at a time my sweet lord…

    in reply to: A New Life #12085
    cat438
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    Hi Debbie, I have been in a bit of a slump lately, feeling sorry for myself, but I thank God that I am feeling a bit more like my normal self again.  Well as normal as any crazy person can be LOL  I am so disappointed that you did not paint your apartment RED LOL, I am just kidding.  It is so lovely to read your uplifting post and hear the joy come through in it.  You really are at a different place in your life now and it shows.  I hope that your first night in your "new home" was wonderful and I wish you much happiness in it.  How about painting one wall RED LOL  You could call it your crazy wall. One day at a time my sweet lord…

    in reply to: ICANDOTHIS #11174
    cat438
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    Ican I have been thinking about you since I read about your MIL and wondering how she is.  It is so sad on her birthday that she is having problems.  I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you.One day at a time my sweet lord…

    in reply to: After relapse…. #10825
    cat438
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    Hi Paul, sorry to hear that you gambled after nearly 8 years clean, but glad that you are reaching out to get back into recovery. I am thinking that you will know what you need to do to put barriers in place.  As you mentioned it may help you to get a sponsor through GA to get you back on the right road.  We are all in the same boat here – taking it one day at a time.  Keep posting and reading as it does help to get the support from others.   One day at a time my sweet lord…

    in reply to: April – ODAAT – ALL Welcome #10853
    cat438
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    I did not gamble yesterday, and do not plan on gambling today, and tomorrow will take care of itself.  Yes, I have regrets about the past and all the money and time that I have wasted with gambling, but I can’t change the past.  I saw this saying somewhere… "Don’t look back your not going that way".  Well, I suppose unless you are reversing your car then you would be in trouble if you did not look back LOL.  I am feeling a bit better emotionally this morning so I am hoping that today is a better day.  I have to focus on ******** my blessings every day and also remembering to "Let Go Let God".   I really want to have that gamble free life and Velvet said it’s possible, and I know she would not *** to me!!!!  The only way you can achieve a gamble free life is one day at a time.  I have to focus on the positive and sing to the slots/vlts… that we are never ever ever getting back together!!!!! I will go back to focusing on today though as that is all that I need to do, just take it one day at a time.  Wishing everyone a happy day free of gambling.One day at a time my sweet lord…

    in reply to: April – ODAAT – ALL Welcome #10848
    cat438
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    We always have to remember that no matter how much time we have gamble free… we are all the same distance from placing the next bet…..   I know from experience that even though I may have a bit more gamble free time than some of you right now, that can change in the blink of an eye.  I know how easy it is to be back ******** day 1 again and again!!!!   We are all the same in that we have to focus on today. I know that I am having more thoughts of gambling lately but I also know it is not the answer to anything.  I know that I have to get rid of the "stinking thinking" as I know where it leads.  Nothing changes if nothing changes.  We all deserve to have this day free of gambling.  We deserve to have a gamble free life.  We are worth fighting for.  Wishing everyone a day free of gambling.One day at a time my sweet lord…

    in reply to: Woke up wishing I was dead today #19721
    cat438
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    Bettie, Bettie, Bettie, thank you so much for your post about the Easter Bunny, it made me feel happy.  Also your Reflection Post for Today was just what I needed today.  I have been thinking about gambling too much lately.  I know that it is up to me to get ride of the "stinking thinking".  I will work on it!!!  I hope that you are feeling better health wise and that you get your finances all sorted out.  Take care dear Bettie!!!!One day at a time my sweet lord…

    in reply to: Woke up wishing I was dead today #19702
    cat438
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    Young lady have an awesome day you deserve it!!!!
     
     One day at a time my sweet lord…

    in reply to: Feeling hopeful #15228
    cat438
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    (((Lizbeth))), my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. One day at a time my sweet lord…

    in reply to: March for Ican and P #11137
    cat438
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    Hi P,Ican and Sherry, I am feeling a bit down today, but not because of gambling because of my friend’s daughter having so much pain with her cancer.  I have to let go let God with it.  I pray that they get her pain under control again.  I am finding that I am learning so much about how my emotions can cause thoughts and urges, but I am realizing that it is not the answer.  So proud of you all for your gamble free days.  I am gamble free in March as well.  It is strange we are nearly half way through the month.  The days do go so fast some*****, and yet other ***** they go so slow.  I am feeling a bit melancoly (sp) with emotions right now.One day at a time my sweet lord…

    in reply to: Feeling hopeful #15225
    cat438
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    Dear Lizbeth, I think of you often and I am so glad to read that your family is supporting you and your hubby at this difficult time.  I hate cancer and the pain and suffering that it causes to anyone who has it. I brought a silever bracelet for my daughter’s friend that says **** cancer, it looks lovelyand was designed by someone who had cancer and some of the money goes to cancer research.  I may be feeling a bit more emotional about what you are going through right now because of my friend’s daughter.  She is in pallative care right now to get her pain under control.  I pray that your hubby does not suffer too much pain and they are able to control it.  One day at a time Lizbeth that is all any of us can do.One day at a time my sweet lord…

    in reply to: i can do this #13940
    cat438
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    It is what it is.  Having gambling thoughts today, but not acting on them.  I have had a shower and it is getting close to bed time so I will not be going gambling.  I have been feeling stressed and emotional the last couple of days so I know what is causing them.  I just wanted to run away for a while.. or escape, but it does not solve anything.  My friend’s daughter who has cancer and is at the pallative care stage inspires me so much… if she has a bad day with pain.. she says tomorrow will be better.  I think of that and say why would I want to gamble when I have been blessed with a day free of pain. Wishing everyone a wonderful gamble free life one day at a time!!!!One day at a time my sweet lord…

    in reply to: Feeling hopeful #15218
    cat438
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    Dear Lizbeth, I asked my friend whose daughter has cancer (she has pallative care nurses come in daily to help with pain meds etc.,) how she manages to deal with it.  She said that she deals with it one day at a time.  She gets up in the morning and depending how her daughter is dictates what will happen that day.  Her daughter may be able to go out for an hour or so or she may spend her day lieing on the couch. I know that her daughter is in pain as I can see it in her face.  I can also see how she is spaced out at ***** with the pain meds.  She is fighting to enjoy every day that she has.  On top of this my friend is looking after the twins who will be one year old this month. The other grandparents took the babies for a few nights and I know that my friend told me she had to get out the house today. I suppose what I am saying is that she is the carer, although her daughter has a husband, and she ***** a break from being the carer. I know you mentioned just going out and doing something helped give you a break, please take as many breaks as you can.    Family and friends want to help as they feel so helpless and want to help lighten your load, so accept all the help that anyone offers. It is so wonderful that your daughters and son-in-law are helping. Thinking of you and saying a prayer for you and your family. One day at a time my sweet lord…

    in reply to: Free #11280
    cat438
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    Hi Jay, AWESOME, thanks for the update.  I am so happy that you have found what you needed for you to be able to turn the page.  I wish you a wonderful gamble free day!!!One day at a time my sweet lord…

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