Thanks for the advice. After his last two gambles he’s admitted he’s felt depressed and tried to talk to me about it but he doesn’t like opening up his feeling so I just didn’t poke for information just left it. He’s admitted he’s getting the bank details changed that his wage goes into so that it will go direct to my bank and that I can pay the bills etc and save some and give him a set amount each week for clothes or whatever which he probably will gamble but that’s all he will get each week. He knows himself he can’t be trusted. When he’s in that mood and gambling and losses all his money he’ll throw his tablet across the room and try to blame me because I was asking him to stop because I knew what he was doing.
I want to stay with him but changes are needed.
