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  • blackjack412
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    Dang Man Hang In There! Been there done that many times. You will get better.

    in reply to: Im an absolute IDIOT!!!! #47400
    blackjack412
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    Any updates? Best thing I can say would be to self exclude then u cant gamble there. Only thing that stops me.

    in reply to: Lost a Million $ Finally Self Excluded #50368
    blackjack412
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    Thanks for reaching out. It will be a battle to get out of debt for sure however my focus right now is just to be a better father and husband. I dont feel like my gambling affected them that much. I never neglected them, I was pretty sneaky about my habit. They still have everything they need and more plus I’m not behind on Bill’s or anything it just sucks that blackjack got me behind again.

    blackjack412
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    Hey man I’m new to here too just posted the other day. I have huge swings like u mentioned but when I win big I never leave. I was up 30k one night off $500 and freaking gave it all back! I just got peeled the other night for 10gs. So I definitely feel your pain. The best thing I can say is it’s good you banned yourself and also the fact your 28 and want to stop now. I’m 36 and have been like this since 19 I just have a good job to luckily support it. If you stop now you will have plenty of time to rebound, I have been to negative and dug out many times. Keep your head up and thanks for posting and know your not the only one that does crazy bets and doesn’t walk.

    blackjack412
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    Хей човече, аз също съм нов тук, току -що публикуван онзи ден. Имам огромни люлки, както споменахте, но когато спечеля голям, никога не напускам. Вдигнах 30 000 за една вечер с $ 500 и откачен ми върна всичко! Току -що се обелих снощи за 10 грама. Така че определено чувствам болката ти. Най -доброто, което мога да кажа, е добре, че сте забранили себе си, както и факта, че сте на 28 и искате да спрете сега. Аз съм на 36 и съм такъв от 19, просто имам добра работа, за да го подкрепя. Ако спрете сега, ще имате достатъчно време за възстановяване, аз съм бил отрицателен и изкопах много пъти. Вдигнете глава и благодаря за публикацията и знайте, че не сте единственият, който прави луди залози и не ходи.

    blackjack412
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    Hey man, ik ben hier ook nieuw, heb laatst ook gepost. Ik heb enorme schommels zoals je zei, maar als ik veel win, ga ik nooit weg. Ik was op een avond 30k omhoog van $ 500 en freaking gaf het allemaal terug! Ik ben laatst gepeld voor 10 gram. Dus ik voel zeker je pijn. Het beste wat ik kan zeggen is dat het goed is dat je jezelf verbannen hebt en ook het feit dat je 28 bent en nu wilt stoppen. Ik ben 36 en ben zo sinds 19. Ik heb gewoon een goede baan om het gelukkig te ondersteunen. Als je nu stopt, heb je genoeg tijd om te herstellen, ik ben vaak te negatief geweest en uitgegraven. Houd je hoofd omhoog en bedankt voor het posten en weet dat je niet de enige bent die gekke weddenschappen doet en niet loopt.

    blackjack412
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    Привет, парень, я тоже здесь новенький, только что написал на днях. У меня есть огромные колебания, как вы упомянули, но когда я выигрываю по-крупному, я никогда не ухожу. Я заработал 30 тысяч за одну ночь с 500 долларов и, черт возьми, отдал все обратно! Я только что накануне вечером снял кожуру на 10 гс. Так что я определенно чувствую твою боль. Лучшее, что я могу сказать, это хорошо, что вы забанили себя, а также тот факт, что вам 28 и вы хотите прекратить сейчас. Мне 36 лет, и я так себя чувствую с 19 лет. У меня просто хорошая работа, чтобы, к счастью, это поддержать. Если вы остановитесь сейчас, у вас будет достаточно времени, чтобы отскочить, я много раз был отрицательным и откапывался. Держите голову выше и спасибо за публикацию, и знайте, что вы не единственный, кто делает сумасшедшие ставки и не ходит.

    in reply to: Blackjack Insanity #47409
    blackjack412
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    Thanks for response man. I feel my relationship is solid but I could be wrong. I totally get into a funk for days after a big loss sometimes even a big win because my gambling usually goes hand and hand with heavy drinking. I only do it maybe once a month heavy then chase my losses for a couple days. I’m really going to try and not gamble for a year to see where it puts me financially. I dont get the urge to gamble daily and make sure my kids and wife are taken care of financially it’s just lotsssss of extra savings that I should have not the debt. We dont have joint accounts so she really doesn’t know how much or when I gamble but I dont lie if she asks just bend the truth a little haha 

    in reply to: Blackjack Insanity #47407
    blackjack412
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    Thanks for the response Mark. The wife already knows. I have banned myself before but signed back in. I hate not being able to go for social reasons but I think you are right I need to sign out again. Yeah I am wired like I will continue to win I honestly feel if I would walk away I would actually be up gambling because at some point in the night I am usually up. Its pretty rare I actually just go and lose every hand. I’m torn and I know I have a problem but my other side is saying I dont just need to walk away. Ugh…

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