[bettie]

Zdravo Steevie,
Mogu vam dati bankovni savjet. Plaćanje računa putem interneta putem web stranice tvrtke potrošit će vaš novac na pravi način. To možete postaviti i putem svoje banke.
Kao komplicirani Kockar novac je iskušenje. Ako vam nije ugodno razgovarati s mužem, možda bi vam rođak ili prijatelj mogao raditi kao povjerenik i pomoći vam u upravljanju. Nema $$ = Bez kockanja.
Molimo vas da nastavite s objavljivanjem. Pridružite se chatovima i tražite pomoć na liniji za pomoć kada su otvoreni. Svi razumijemo. Objavljujte pitanja, odzračite se, učinite sve što je potrebno da odgodite ili spriječite sljedeću okladu.
Prvi koraci su teški, ali neophodni. Tu smo za vas!
mir
bettie

[bettie]

Hola Steevie,
Asesoramiento bancario que puedo darte. El pago de facturas en línea a través del sitio web de la empresa gastará su dinero de la manera correcta. También puede configurarlo a través de su banco.
Como jugador cómplice, el dinero es una tentación. Si no se siente cómodo hablando con su esposo, tal vez un familiar o amigo podría trabajar como un confidente y ayudarlo a manejar. No $$ = No hay apuesta.
Sigue publicando. Únase a los chats y busque ayuda en la línea de ayuda cuando estén abiertos. Todos entendemos. Publique preguntas, desahogue, haga lo que sea necesario para retrasar o prevenir la próxima apuesta.
Los primeros pasos son difíciles pero necesarios. ¡Estamos aquí por tí!
paz
bettie

[bettie]

Hej Steevie,
Bankrådgivning kan jeg give dig. Online regningsbetaling via firmaets websted vil bruge dine penge på den rigtige måde. Du kan også konfigurere det via din bank.
Som en klagende spiller er fristelser. Hvis du ikke er fortrolig med at tale med min husbond, kan en slægtning eller ven måske arbejde som trøst og hjælpe dig med at styre. Ingen $$ = Ingen spil.
Fortsæt venligst med at sende. Deltag i chats, og søg hjælp på hjælpelinjen, når de er åbne. Vi forstår alle. Stil spørgsmål, vent, gør hvad der skal til for at forsinke og eller forhindre det næste væddemål.
De første trin er hårde, men nødvendige. Vi er her for dig!
fred
bettie

[bettie]

Ciao Stevie,
Consiglio bancario che posso darti. Il pagamento delle bollette online attraverso il sito web della società farà spendere i tuoi soldi nel modo giusto. Puoi configurarlo anche tramite la tua banca.
In quanto giocatore d'azzardo compulsivo, il denaro è una tentazione. Se non ti senti a tuo agio a parlare con tuo marito, forse un parente o un amico potrebbe lavorare come confidente e aiutarti a gestire. Nessun $$ = Nessuna scommessa.
Si prega di continuare a postare. Unisciti alle chat e cerca aiuto sulla linea di assistenza quando sono aperte. Capiamo tutti. Pubblica domande, sfogati, fai tutto il necessario per ritardare o impedire la prossima scommessa.
I primi passi sono difficili ma necessari. Siamo qui per voi!
la pace
bettie

[bettie]

Γεια σου Steevie,
Μπορώ να σας δώσω τραπεζικές συμβουλές. Η online πληρωμή λογαριασμών μέσω της ιστοσελίδας της εταιρείας θα δαπανήσει τα χρήματά σας με τον σωστό τρόπο. Μπορείτε επίσης να το ρυθμίσετε μέσω της τράπεζάς σας.
Ως συμπερασματικά χρήματα Gambler είναι πειρασμός. Εάν δεν αισθάνεστε άνετα να μιλάτε με τον σύντροφό σας, ίσως ένας συγγενής ή φίλος θα μπορούσε να εργαστεί ως συντροφικός και να σας βοηθήσει να διαχειριστείτε. Όχι $ $ = Χωρίς Gamble.
Συνεχίστε να δημοσιεύετε. Εγγραφείτε στις συνομιλίες και αναζητήστε βοήθεια στη γραμμή βοήθειας όταν είναι ανοιχτές. Όλοι καταλαβαίνουμε. Δημοσιεύστε ερωτήσεις, εξαερώστε, κάντε ό, τι χρειάζεται για να καθυστερήσετε ή να αποτρέψετε το επόμενο στοίχημα.
Τα πρώτα βήματα είναι δύσκολα αλλά απαραίτητα. Είμαστε εδώ για εσάς!
ειρήνη
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
What a day, I am pooped!
Had my semi annual review today-what a joke!
My coworker was back from vacation today. He took a customer at 9:15 am. My boss sat in his office, reading his news paper. At about 10:30 he shoots me an e mail to say that the lobby is backed up and can I move my customer along.
He was busy working on reviews and couldn’t take a customer! Mind you, I had already taken 3 customers and was only with this one 5 minutes when he sent that! I was P*SSED! I proceded to take an additional 8 customers while my coworker STILL had the same customer from 9:15am! NOTHING was said to him-he’s the golden boy and takes as much time as he wants while I am stuck making 0 towards my goals taking all the service customers.
So it’s afternoon and time for my review. He proceeds to tell my how i am 111% for the 1st Quarter and 115% for the 2nd quarter. ( never mind that the goal was raised 10% so really I was 25% above the first quarter!) While I have made some improvement I still had quite a way to go as I could be exceeding my goals by much more.
Enough, what ever, i signed off on it then asked him,"Is this the time I tell you I am looking for a different position?"
He’s like, "are u kidding?" "No, I’ve been thinking about this for a long time as it is very defeating to make goals just to have them pushed out of reach. I am finding this position just too stressful with the pressure to sell sell sell and I will NOT put customers into accounts that they don’t need in order to make a goal, thats just not me."
"I can’t believe you want to move now. You are doing so well."
"That is the time to move ( mr x), as you can’t move while on probation. In all my career I have never had unsatasfactory reviews and write ups, until now."
He said he would speak to the regional about the goal and what was going on.
I told him I wanted to let him know so he wouldn’t hear it second hand.
I just can’t do this job anymore. I am burnt out and it sickens me to see all the cheaters rewarded for opening high value accounts with low balances to get better credit and placing waivers on so the customer doesn’t get charged, at least for a while. Then when they get charged I seem to get stuck trying to resolve their problems. When a company opens 7000 accounts in a quarter and closes out 9000 what does that tell you? Customer are getting jerked around and tired of it.
Sorry if that rambles but I just had to vent!
peace
bettie
 

[bettie]

Morning,
Sorry about leaving the chat yesterday, internet pooped out. Still having problems so if I go mia tonight don’t worry, need nephew to come over and straighten me out.
Would love to call off today, just can’t afford to.
catch u all soon!
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
Home from the wedding. It was nice, ate too much! Wore pumps, I was one of the few with shoes still on after the dinner. Why do we kill ourselves to wear shoes we just take off anyway??
Has a nice visit with my Nieces. My niece from down south came in on the train. She is so quite, I can’t believe she is one of us, lol! She’s 18 now, my brother would be so proud of her. I can’t believe I was pregnant with my daughter when I was her age. She is still just a babe in my eyes. I was so much older at 18.
I told My ex gambling buddy abut the GA meetings. She said "you know, I never thought you had a problem, I was suprised when you told me about the online therapy, but I can’t believe you need to go to GA, I never saw you like that." I told her that that is just how sneeky this illiness is, I lost my mind right in front of you and I was so good at covering up even you didn’t see it. I never lied to her, I just never told her about the return trips to the casino, the actual losses, the trips there without her,the feelings of discuss I had for myslf, the sleepless nights, the sucidal thoughts, the hopelessness, the fears,the shame.
Wow, that was a mouthful!
Work, more stress. They raised the goals 25%. I barely made it the last quarter and this one is off to a slow start. I think they just want to get rid of all of us oldtimers. They preach service but only judge you on sales ( new Accounts).
I am going to apply for different jobs in the company. The bankrupcy will be a big hinderance to getting another bank job beside the fact that I don’t want to give up my vacation time (4 weeks) and start over with 2. This sucks but I have to deal with it head on, can’t run and hide. I must be proactive and stop procrastnating.
Nothing changes if nothing changes.
Mersault, i didn’t leave the chat because of you. Was that person looking for gambling help or just help gambling??
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi guys,
Seems to be trouble on the chat. Oh well, it’s late and I’ll try tomorrow.
Made it to GA in the rain. Not quite so emotional tonight. I still don’t get when you start working the steps, they talk about it but I don’t know when that happens. Time will tell. Every one seems very nice but very religious. I will try to keep an open mind.
Hope to catch u all tomorrow!
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
Boy, what a week! I’ve been running with the daughter every night trying to get things together for her.
The car was a total loss. Her insurance gave her a very fair amount for the car, $4400, concitering that it was 5 years old and beat up in general with 100,000 miles on it. What a shame, she just paid it off 3 weeks ago and is ran very well. Her dad found an old car for her, 1998 , with low miles so hopefully it will have a little life left to it.
Thanks to everyone for their support. Someday I’ll get it together, i’ll learn to love me.
Hope to go to GA tonight, depends on the weather. Calling for stormes but if they get out of the way early i’ll go. If not, I’ll be chatting early!
See you all on the chat!
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
M, this show the depths of my own self hatred that is only the tip of the iceberge when it comes to this illiness.
Some day, and hopefully it won’t be long, i will regain the respect i once had for myself and even if it means being alone i will stop compromising my own morals and rid myself of these unhealthy and unproductive relationships.
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Meur.
That tyrate was partly brought on by the 5 beers he had before I met up with him. He has no excuse ( he has an unadmitted drinking problem) and I got what I deserved, hurt feelings, because I should know by now I have no one to confide in. esp. him. He is like a slot machine to me, he takes the best from me and turns away after he’s gotten what he wants or needs from me. I am his fool, and the really sad part is I still feel if I got him out of my life I would be even more sad and lonley than I am right now.
sick, isn’t it?
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
UG! I went to dinner with my other friend, told him i went to a ga meeting, mistake, mistake, mistake!
He says I won’t say too much but you don’t know how much that p*sses me off. I work so hard for all my life to make money and to just throw it away, just makes me mad. I made a poor attempt to defend myself, that was a mistake too. Any one can make an excuse for anything he says. I told him I went to the meeting so I would have some one to talk to since I have no one who can understand this. He just looked at me.
I am so upset. People make their own happiness, you can chose to be happy if you want to he says.
Did I somehow chose to be CG? Did I chose to be unhappy? I don’t remember making those choices.
I wanted to SCREAM at him, do u know how many times I gambled because U broke a promise to me? Do you know how being involved with you eats at me because I know it’s wrong? Do u know that I hate myself?
I feel so broken
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
P, he can be really rude but he can be a real motovater too. He used to be a great support for my workouts but he is all about himself. He has an ex who told him he was only capable of loving himself. She is compleatly right. If I didn’t care for him there would be alot i could say but I’ll take the high road, until i really get fed up then watch out!
My daughter called me at work. Her boyfriend called and told her a Taxi hit her car and it may be totaled! This is really awful, she just paid it off 2 weeks ago! She can’t afford a car payment but I am afraid that the dammage is more than the car is worth. I called her Dad and asked him to help her get another car. He’s a good guy, he’ll help her out.
Tired, running all day!
till tomorrow….
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
Dee, i am about 45 minutes from Arlington Heights, small world u know?
Monday, monday-la la la la la la-can’t trust that day….
Well at least i woke up singing!
Gotta get to work!
peace
bettie

[Author]

Posts