[bettie]

Szia Steevie,
Banki tanácsot tudok adni. Az online számlafizetés a vállalatok webhelyén keresztül a megfelelő módon költi el a pénzét. Ezt a bankján keresztül is beállíthatja.
Teljes értékű szerencsejátékosként a pénz kísértés. Ha nem szeretne kényelmesen beszélgetni a férjével, akkor talán egy rokona vagy barátja kényelmesen dolgozhat, és segíthet a kezelésben. No $$ = Nincs szerencsejáték.
Kérjük, továbbra is tegye közzé. Csatlakozzon a csevegéshez, és kérjen segítséget a segélyvonalon, amikor azok nyitva vannak. Mindannyian megértjük. Tegyen fel kérdéseket, szellőztessen, tegyen meg mindent, hogy késleltesse vagy megakadályozza a következő fogadást.
Az első lépések nehézek, de szükségesek. Mi itt vagyunk neked!
béke
bettie

[bettie]

Привіт Стіві,
Я можу вам дати банківську пораду. Оплата рахунків в Інтернеті через веб -сайт компанії витратить ваші гроші належним чином. Ви також можете налаштувати це через свій банк.
Гроші, як компромісний гравець, є спокусою. Якщо вам не зручно розмовляти з чоловіком, можливо, родич чи друг може працювати спокійно і допомогти вам в управлінні. No $$ = Без азартних ігор.
Будь ласка, продовжуйте розміщувати. Приєднуйтесь до чатів і звертайтесь за допомогою на телефон довіри, коли вони відкриті. Ми всі розуміємо. Опублікуйте запитання, висловіть думку, зробіть все можливе, щоб затримати або запобігти наступній ставці.
Перші кроки важкі, але необхідні. Ми тут для вас!
мир
Бетті

[bettie]

Привет Стиви,
Банковский совет, который я могу вам дать. Оплата счетов онлайн через веб-сайт компании позволит правильно потратить ваши деньги. Вы также можете настроить это через свой банк.
Как самолюбивый игрок, деньги – это искушение. Если вам неудобно разговаривать с мужем, возможно, родственник или друг могут поработать комфортно и помочь вам в управлении. Нет $$ = Нет азартных игр.
Пожалуйста, продолжайте публиковать. Присоединяйтесь к чатам и обращайтесь за помощью по горячей линии, когда они открыты. Все мы понимаем. Задавайте вопросы, высказывайтесь, делайте все возможное, чтобы отложить или предотвратить следующую ставку.
Первые шаги трудны, но необходимы. Мы здесь для вас!
мир
Бетти

[bettie]

हाय स्टीवी,
बैंक सलाह मैं आपको दे सकता हूं। कंपनियों की वेब साइट के जरिए ऑनलाइन बिल भुगतान से आपका पैसा सही तरीके से खर्च होगा। आप इसे अपने बैंक के माध्यम से भी सेट कर सकते हैं।
एक बाध्यकारी जुआरी के रूप में पैसा प्रलोभन है। यदि आप अपने पति से बात करने में सहज नहीं हैं तो हो सकता है कि कोई रिश्तेदार या दोस्त एक भरोसेमंद व्यक्ति के रूप में काम कर सकता है और आपको प्रबंधित करने में मदद कर सकता है। नहीं $$ = कोई जुआ नहीं।
कृपया पोस्ट करते रहें। चैट में शामिल हों और जब वे खुले हों तो हेल्पलाइन पर मदद लें। हम सब समझते हैं। प्रश्न पोस्ट करें, वेंट करें, देरी करने और उस अगली शर्त को रोकने के लिए जो भी करना पड़े वह करें।
पहला कदम कठिन है लेकिन जरूरी है। हम यहाँ आपके लिए हैं!
शांति
बेट्टी

[bettie]

Hi Steevie,
Bank advice I can give you. Online bill payment through the web site of the companys will spend your money the right way. You can set that up through your bank too.
As a complusive Gambler money is temptation. If you are not comfortable talking to hubby maybe a relative or friend could work as a comfident and help u mannage. No $$ = No Gamble.
Please keep posting. Join the chats and seek help on the helpline when they are open. We all understand. Post questions, vent, do what ever it takes to delay and or prevent that next bet.
First steps are hard but nessessary. We’re here for you!
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
What a day, I am pooped!
Had my semi annual review today-what a joke!
My coworker was back from vacation today. He took a customer at 9:15 am. My boss sat in his office, reading his news paper. At about 10:30 he shoots me an e mail to say that the lobby is backed up and can I move my customer along.
He was busy working on reviews and couldn’t take a customer! Mind you, I had already taken 3 customers and was only with this one 5 minutes when he sent that! I was P*SSED! I proceded to take an additional 8 customers while my coworker STILL had the same customer from 9:15am! NOTHING was said to him-he’s the golden boy and takes as much time as he wants while I am stuck making 0 towards my goals taking all the service customers.
So it’s afternoon and time for my review. He proceeds to tell my how i am 111% for the 1st Quarter and 115% for the 2nd quarter. ( never mind that the goal was raised 10% so really I was 25% above the first quarter!) While I have made some improvement I still had quite a way to go as I could be exceeding my goals by much more.
Enough, what ever, i signed off on it then asked him,"Is this the time I tell you I am looking for a different position?"
He’s like, "are u kidding?" "No, I’ve been thinking about this for a long time as it is very defeating to make goals just to have them pushed out of reach. I am finding this position just too stressful with the pressure to sell sell sell and I will NOT put customers into accounts that they don’t need in order to make a goal, thats just not me."
"I can’t believe you want to move now. You are doing so well."
"That is the time to move ( mr x), as you can’t move while on probation. In all my career I have never had unsatasfactory reviews and write ups, until now."
He said he would speak to the regional about the goal and what was going on.
I told him I wanted to let him know so he wouldn’t hear it second hand.
I just can’t do this job anymore. I am burnt out and it sickens me to see all the cheaters rewarded for opening high value accounts with low balances to get better credit and placing waivers on so the customer doesn’t get charged, at least for a while. Then when they get charged I seem to get stuck trying to resolve their problems. When a company opens 7000 accounts in a quarter and closes out 9000 what does that tell you? Customer are getting jerked around and tired of it.
Sorry if that rambles but I just had to vent!
peace
bettie
 

[bettie]

Morning,
Sorry about leaving the chat yesterday, internet pooped out. Still having problems so if I go mia tonight don’t worry, need nephew to come over and straighten me out.
Would love to call off today, just can’t afford to.
catch u all soon!
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
Home from the wedding. It was nice, ate too much! Wore pumps, I was one of the few with shoes still on after the dinner. Why do we kill ourselves to wear shoes we just take off anyway??
Has a nice visit with my Nieces. My niece from down south came in on the train. She is so quite, I can’t believe she is one of us, lol! She’s 18 now, my brother would be so proud of her. I can’t believe I was pregnant with my daughter when I was her age. She is still just a babe in my eyes. I was so much older at 18.
I told My ex gambling buddy abut the GA meetings. She said "you know, I never thought you had a problem, I was suprised when you told me about the online therapy, but I can’t believe you need to go to GA, I never saw you like that." I told her that that is just how sneeky this illiness is, I lost my mind right in front of you and I was so good at covering up even you didn’t see it. I never lied to her, I just never told her about the return trips to the casino, the actual losses, the trips there without her,the feelings of discuss I had for myslf, the sleepless nights, the sucidal thoughts, the hopelessness, the fears,the shame.
Wow, that was a mouthful!
Work, more stress. They raised the goals 25%. I barely made it the last quarter and this one is off to a slow start. I think they just want to get rid of all of us oldtimers. They preach service but only judge you on sales ( new Accounts).
I am going to apply for different jobs in the company. The bankrupcy will be a big hinderance to getting another bank job beside the fact that I don’t want to give up my vacation time (4 weeks) and start over with 2. This sucks but I have to deal with it head on, can’t run and hide. I must be proactive and stop procrastnating.
Nothing changes if nothing changes.
Mersault, i didn’t leave the chat because of you. Was that person looking for gambling help or just help gambling??
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi guys,
Seems to be trouble on the chat. Oh well, it’s late and I’ll try tomorrow.
Made it to GA in the rain. Not quite so emotional tonight. I still don’t get when you start working the steps, they talk about it but I don’t know when that happens. Time will tell. Every one seems very nice but very religious. I will try to keep an open mind.
Hope to catch u all tomorrow!
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
Boy, what a week! I’ve been running with the daughter every night trying to get things together for her.
The car was a total loss. Her insurance gave her a very fair amount for the car, $4400, concitering that it was 5 years old and beat up in general with 100,000 miles on it. What a shame, she just paid it off 3 weeks ago and is ran very well. Her dad found an old car for her, 1998 , with low miles so hopefully it will have a little life left to it.
Thanks to everyone for their support. Someday I’ll get it together, i’ll learn to love me.
Hope to go to GA tonight, depends on the weather. Calling for stormes but if they get out of the way early i’ll go. If not, I’ll be chatting early!
See you all on the chat!
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
M, this show the depths of my own self hatred that is only the tip of the iceberge when it comes to this illiness.
Some day, and hopefully it won’t be long, i will regain the respect i once had for myself and even if it means being alone i will stop compromising my own morals and rid myself of these unhealthy and unproductive relationships.
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Meur.
That tyrate was partly brought on by the 5 beers he had before I met up with him. He has no excuse ( he has an unadmitted drinking problem) and I got what I deserved, hurt feelings, because I should know by now I have no one to confide in. esp. him. He is like a slot machine to me, he takes the best from me and turns away after he’s gotten what he wants or needs from me. I am his fool, and the really sad part is I still feel if I got him out of my life I would be even more sad and lonley than I am right now.
sick, isn’t it?
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
UG! I went to dinner with my other friend, told him i went to a ga meeting, mistake, mistake, mistake!
He says I won’t say too much but you don’t know how much that p*sses me off. I work so hard for all my life to make money and to just throw it away, just makes me mad. I made a poor attempt to defend myself, that was a mistake too. Any one can make an excuse for anything he says. I told him I went to the meeting so I would have some one to talk to since I have no one who can understand this. He just looked at me.
I am so upset. People make their own happiness, you can chose to be happy if you want to he says.
Did I somehow chose to be CG? Did I chose to be unhappy? I don’t remember making those choices.
I wanted to SCREAM at him, do u know how many times I gambled because U broke a promise to me? Do you know how being involved with you eats at me because I know it’s wrong? Do u know that I hate myself?
I feel so broken
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
P, he can be really rude but he can be a real motovater too. He used to be a great support for my workouts but he is all about himself. He has an ex who told him he was only capable of loving himself. She is compleatly right. If I didn’t care for him there would be alot i could say but I’ll take the high road, until i really get fed up then watch out!
My daughter called me at work. Her boyfriend called and told her a Taxi hit her car and it may be totaled! This is really awful, she just paid it off 2 weeks ago! She can’t afford a car payment but I am afraid that the dammage is more than the car is worth. I called her Dad and asked him to help her get another car. He’s a good guy, he’ll help her out.
Tired, running all day!
till tomorrow….
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
Dee, i am about 45 minutes from Arlington Heights, small world u know?
Monday, monday-la la la la la la-can’t trust that day….
Well at least i woke up singing!
Gotta get to work!
peace
bettie

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