[bettie]

Merhaba Stevie,
Banka tavsiyesi verebilirim. Firmaların web sitesi üzerinden online fatura ödemesi yaparak paranızı doğru şekilde harcayacaksınız. Bunu bankanız aracılığıyla da ayarlayabilirsiniz.
Zorlayıcı bir Kumarbaz olarak para cezbedicidir. Kocanızla konuşmakta rahat değilseniz, belki bir akrabanız veya arkadaşınız kendinden emin olarak çalışabilir ve yönetmenize yardımcı olabilir. $$ Yok = Kumar Yok.
Lütfen yayınlamaya devam edin. Sohbetlere katılın ve açık olduklarında yardım hattından yardım isteyin. Hepimiz anlıyoruz. Sorular gönderin, havalandırın, bir sonraki bahsi geciktirmek ve/veya önlemek için ne gerekiyorsa yapın.
İlk adımlar zor ama gerekli. Senin için buradayız!
Barış
betty

[bettie]

Hei Steevie,
Bankråd kan jeg gi deg. Online regning betaling via nettstedet til selskapene vil bruke pengene dine på den riktige måten. Du kan konfigurere det via banken din også.
Som en klagende gambler er penger fristelse. Hvis du ikke er komfortabel med å snakke med mannen din, kan en slektning eller venn jobbe som en trøst og hjelpe deg med å håndtere. Ingen $$ = Ingen gamble.
Vennligst fortsett å legge ut. Bli med i chattene og søk hjelp på hjelpelinjen når de er åpne. Vi forstår alle. Still spørsmål, vent, gjør hva som helst for å forsinke og eller forhindre neste innsats.
De første trinnene er vanskelige, men nødvendige. Vi er her for deg!
fred
bettie

[bettie]

ہیلو اسٹیوی ،
بینک مشورہ میں آپ کو دے سکتا ہوں۔ کمپنی کی ویب سائٹ کے ذریعے آن لائن بل کی ادائیگی آپ کے پیسے کو صحیح طریقے سے خرچ کرے گی۔ آپ اسے اپنے بینک کے ذریعے بھی ترتیب دے سکتے ہیں۔
بطور جامع جواری پیسہ فتنہ ہے۔ اگر آپ اپنے شوہر سے بات کرنے میں راضی نہیں ہیں تو ہوسکتا ہے کہ کوئی رشتہ دار یا دوست آرام دہ اور پرسکون کام کرے اور آپ کی مدد کرے۔ نہیں $$ = کوئی جوا نہیں۔
براہ کرم پوسٹ کرتے رہیں۔ چیٹس میں شامل ہوں اور ہیلپ لائن پر مدد طلب کریں جب وہ کھلے ہوں۔ ہم سب سمجھتے ہیں۔ سوالات پوسٹ کریں ، نکالیں ، تاخیر اور اگلی شرط کو روکنے کے لیے جو چاہے کریں۔
پہلا قدم مشکل ہے لیکن ضروری ہے۔ ہم یہاں آپ کے لیے ہیں!
امن
بیٹی

[bettie]

Xin chàoamondsvie!
Tôi có thể cho bạn lời khuyên ngân hàng. Thanh toán hóa đơn trực tuyến thông qua trang web của các công ty sẽ tiêu tiền của bạn đúng cách. Bạn cũng có thể thiết lập điều đó thông qua ngân hàng của mình.
Như một người chơi cờ bạc, tiền là sự cám dỗ. Nếu bạn không thoải mái khi nói chuyện với chồng, có thể một người thân hoặc bạn bè có thể làm việc như một người tự tin và giúp bạn quản lý. Không $$ = Không có cờ bạc.
Hãy tiếp tục đăng bài. Tham gia các cuộc trò chuyện và tìm kiếm sự trợ giúp trên đường dây trợ giúp khi chúng đang mở. Tất cả chúng tôi đều hiểu. Đăng câu hỏi, thông báo, làm những gì cần thiết để trì hoãn và hoặc ngăn chặn lần đặt cược tiếp theo đó.
Những bước đầu tiên rất khó nhưng không cần thiết. Chúng tôi ở đây vì bạn!
Sự thanh bình
bettie

[bettie]

こんにちはスティービー、
私があなたに与えることができる銀行のアドバイス。会社のウェブサイトを介したオンライン請求書支払いはあなたのお金を正しい方法で使うでしょう。あなたもあなたの銀行を通してそれを設定することができます。
有利なギャンブラーとしてのお金は誘惑です。夫と話すのが苦手な場合は、親戚や友人が自信を持って働き、管理を手伝ってくれるかもしれません。 $$なし=ギャンブルなし。
投稿を続けてください。チャットに参加して、開いているときにヘルプラインで助けを求めてください。私たちは皆理解しています。質問を投稿し、ベントし、次の賭けを遅らせたり防止したりするために必要なことは何でもします。
最初のステップは難しいですが、必須です。私たちはあなたのためにここにいます！
平和
ベティ

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
What a day, I am pooped!
Had my semi annual review today-what a joke!
My coworker was back from vacation today. He took a customer at 9:15 am. My boss sat in his office, reading his news paper. At about 10:30 he shoots me an e mail to say that the lobby is backed up and can I move my customer along.
He was busy working on reviews and couldn’t take a customer! Mind you, I had already taken 3 customers and was only with this one 5 minutes when he sent that! I was P*SSED! I proceded to take an additional 8 customers while my coworker STILL had the same customer from 9:15am! NOTHING was said to him-he’s the golden boy and takes as much time as he wants while I am stuck making 0 towards my goals taking all the service customers.
So it’s afternoon and time for my review. He proceeds to tell my how i am 111% for the 1st Quarter and 115% for the 2nd quarter. ( never mind that the goal was raised 10% so really I was 25% above the first quarter!) While I have made some improvement I still had quite a way to go as I could be exceeding my goals by much more.
Enough, what ever, i signed off on it then asked him,"Is this the time I tell you I am looking for a different position?"
He’s like, "are u kidding?" "No, I’ve been thinking about this for a long time as it is very defeating to make goals just to have them pushed out of reach. I am finding this position just too stressful with the pressure to sell sell sell and I will NOT put customers into accounts that they don’t need in order to make a goal, thats just not me."
"I can’t believe you want to move now. You are doing so well."
"That is the time to move ( mr x), as you can’t move while on probation. In all my career I have never had unsatasfactory reviews and write ups, until now."
He said he would speak to the regional about the goal and what was going on.
I told him I wanted to let him know so he wouldn’t hear it second hand.
I just can’t do this job anymore. I am burnt out and it sickens me to see all the cheaters rewarded for opening high value accounts with low balances to get better credit and placing waivers on so the customer doesn’t get charged, at least for a while. Then when they get charged I seem to get stuck trying to resolve their problems. When a company opens 7000 accounts in a quarter and closes out 9000 what does that tell you? Customer are getting jerked around and tired of it.
Sorry if that rambles but I just had to vent!
peace
bettie
 

[bettie]

Morning,
Sorry about leaving the chat yesterday, internet pooped out. Still having problems so if I go mia tonight don’t worry, need nephew to come over and straighten me out.
Would love to call off today, just can’t afford to.
catch u all soon!
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
Home from the wedding. It was nice, ate too much! Wore pumps, I was one of the few with shoes still on after the dinner. Why do we kill ourselves to wear shoes we just take off anyway??
Has a nice visit with my Nieces. My niece from down south came in on the train. She is so quite, I can’t believe she is one of us, lol! She’s 18 now, my brother would be so proud of her. I can’t believe I was pregnant with my daughter when I was her age. She is still just a babe in my eyes. I was so much older at 18.
I told My ex gambling buddy abut the GA meetings. She said "you know, I never thought you had a problem, I was suprised when you told me about the online therapy, but I can’t believe you need to go to GA, I never saw you like that." I told her that that is just how sneeky this illiness is, I lost my mind right in front of you and I was so good at covering up even you didn’t see it. I never lied to her, I just never told her about the return trips to the casino, the actual losses, the trips there without her,the feelings of discuss I had for myslf, the sleepless nights, the sucidal thoughts, the hopelessness, the fears,the shame.
Wow, that was a mouthful!
Work, more stress. They raised the goals 25%. I barely made it the last quarter and this one is off to a slow start. I think they just want to get rid of all of us oldtimers. They preach service but only judge you on sales ( new Accounts).
I am going to apply for different jobs in the company. The bankrupcy will be a big hinderance to getting another bank job beside the fact that I don’t want to give up my vacation time (4 weeks) and start over with 2. This sucks but I have to deal with it head on, can’t run and hide. I must be proactive and stop procrastnating.
Nothing changes if nothing changes.
Mersault, i didn’t leave the chat because of you. Was that person looking for gambling help or just help gambling??
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi guys,
Seems to be trouble on the chat. Oh well, it’s late and I’ll try tomorrow.
Made it to GA in the rain. Not quite so emotional tonight. I still don’t get when you start working the steps, they talk about it but I don’t know when that happens. Time will tell. Every one seems very nice but very religious. I will try to keep an open mind.
Hope to catch u all tomorrow!
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
Boy, what a week! I’ve been running with the daughter every night trying to get things together for her.
The car was a total loss. Her insurance gave her a very fair amount for the car, $4400, concitering that it was 5 years old and beat up in general with 100,000 miles on it. What a shame, she just paid it off 3 weeks ago and is ran very well. Her dad found an old car for her, 1998 , with low miles so hopefully it will have a little life left to it.
Thanks to everyone for their support. Someday I’ll get it together, i’ll learn to love me.
Hope to go to GA tonight, depends on the weather. Calling for stormes but if they get out of the way early i’ll go. If not, I’ll be chatting early!
See you all on the chat!
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
M, this show the depths of my own self hatred that is only the tip of the iceberge when it comes to this illiness.
Some day, and hopefully it won’t be long, i will regain the respect i once had for myself and even if it means being alone i will stop compromising my own morals and rid myself of these unhealthy and unproductive relationships.
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Meur.
That tyrate was partly brought on by the 5 beers he had before I met up with him. He has no excuse ( he has an unadmitted drinking problem) and I got what I deserved, hurt feelings, because I should know by now I have no one to confide in. esp. him. He is like a slot machine to me, he takes the best from me and turns away after he’s gotten what he wants or needs from me. I am his fool, and the really sad part is I still feel if I got him out of my life I would be even more sad and lonley than I am right now.
sick, isn’t it?
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
UG! I went to dinner with my other friend, told him i went to a ga meeting, mistake, mistake, mistake!
He says I won’t say too much but you don’t know how much that p*sses me off. I work so hard for all my life to make money and to just throw it away, just makes me mad. I made a poor attempt to defend myself, that was a mistake too. Any one can make an excuse for anything he says. I told him I went to the meeting so I would have some one to talk to since I have no one who can understand this. He just looked at me.
I am so upset. People make their own happiness, you can chose to be happy if you want to he says.
Did I somehow chose to be CG? Did I chose to be unhappy? I don’t remember making those choices.
I wanted to SCREAM at him, do u know how many times I gambled because U broke a promise to me? Do you know how being involved with you eats at me because I know it’s wrong? Do u know that I hate myself?
I feel so broken
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
P, he can be really rude but he can be a real motovater too. He used to be a great support for my workouts but he is all about himself. He has an ex who told him he was only capable of loving himself. She is compleatly right. If I didn’t care for him there would be alot i could say but I’ll take the high road, until i really get fed up then watch out!
My daughter called me at work. Her boyfriend called and told her a Taxi hit her car and it may be totaled! This is really awful, she just paid it off 2 weeks ago! She can’t afford a car payment but I am afraid that the dammage is more than the car is worth. I called her Dad and asked him to help her get another car. He’s a good guy, he’ll help her out.
Tired, running all day!
till tomorrow….
peace
bettie

[bettie]

Hi Guys,
Dee, i am about 45 minutes from Arlington Heights, small world u know?
Monday, monday-la la la la la la-can’t trust that day….
Well at least i woke up singing!
Gotta get to work!
peace
bettie

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