[Bara29]

Das ist, als würde man das Tagebuch meines Mannes lesen, könnte nicht treffender sein. Die Frage ist, wie kann ich, der Nicht-CG, den Kreislauf durchbrechen?

[Bara29]

Αυτό είναι σαν να διαβάζω το ημερολόγιο των συζύγων μου, δεν θα μπορούσα να είμαι πιο επίκαιρος. Το ερώτημα είναι πώς μπορώ εγώ, ο μη CG να σπάσω τον κύκλο;

[Bara29]

Dit is alsof ik het dagboek van mijn man lees, het kan niet beter. De vraag is hoe ik, de niet-CG, de cirkel doorbreek?

[Bara29]

Dette er som å lese min manns dagbok, kunne ikke vært mer spot on. Spørsmålet er hvordan jeg, den som ikke er CG, bryter syklusen?

[Bara29]

Esto es como leer el diario de mi esposo, no podría ser más acertado. La pregunta es ¿cómo rompo el ciclo yo, el no CG?

[Bara29]

Dan huwa bħallikieku qrajt id-djarju ta 'żwieġhom, ma jistax ikun iktar fuq il-post. Il-mistoqsija hija kif jien, in-non CG ma nkissirx iċ-ċiklu?

[Bara29]

یہ میرے شوہروں کی ڈائری پڑھنے کے مترادف ہے ، اس سے زیادہ جگہ نہیں مل سکتی۔ سوال یہ ہے کہ میں ، غیر سی جی سائیکل کو کیسے توڑ سکتا ہوں؟

[Bara29]

Isso é como ler o diário do meu marido, não poderia estar mais no local. A questão é como eu, o não CG, interrompo o ciclo?

[Bara29]

Este ca și cum ai citi jurnalul soțului meu, nu ar putea fi mai la fața locului. Întrebarea este cum pot eu, non CG să rup ciclul?

[Bara29]

Isso é como ler o diário do meu marido, não poderia estar mais no local. A questão é como eu, o não CG, interrompo o ciclo?

[Bara29]

Dette er som at læse min ægtemands dagbog, kunne ikke være mere spot on. Spørgsmålet er, hvordan jeg, den ikke -CG bryder cyklussen?

[Bara29]

USA, America

That is very reassuring to read, thank you for the reply. The trouble is (as I’m sure with many) that he can be very irritable, restless and tends to fly off the handle with me over nothing, most probably due to the pressure he is under keeping this big secret. We have been open the last few days and he does seem to be remorseful – impressed even, at how I’m handling it in a calm manner. I really want to help him and support him but as this is the second time that there’s been a ‘revelation, I am nervous of what the future will hold. The fact that I now have complete control on finances does however give me some comfort but as an already anxious person I can’t help but feel there’s something else I’m missing…

I mentioned to him again about the meetings but he’s said he doesn’t think it’s necessary now because he is motivated and adamant that he can do this with my support. My gut is telling me to be strategic here and look for any tell tale signs of secret debts/cards etc. I know that my Googling has probably made me more paranoid! I am happy that the gambler in your life has gone on to be in control. I only pray that my husband can do the same. 

Do you know where the best place is to look for tips on how to deal with a secret gamblers behaviour especially the over reacting and temper?

Thanks

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