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  • in reply to: Here I go again #50543
    Anigdavis
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    Thank you.  Its encouraging to know you’ve been gambling free dev several years.  I know it can be done. 

    in reply to: Trying to figure out what is next. #50550
    Anigdavis
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    Hello I think you still have a chance with her. It’s up to you. Start building your trust up. Perhaps have her handle the money/banking. Be open to her suggestions as well. With acknowledgement comes
    healing.

    in reply to: Trying to figure out what is next. #50545
    Anigdavis
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    Hello
    You’ve taken the first step with acknowledging that you have a problem. You also disclosed this with your fiancee. You will definitely have to start building up your trust with her. Action speaks louder than words.
    I’m not sure if you’ve reached out to her lately . If not perhaps talk to her about wanting to build up your trust. Just a suggestion….. maybe she can handle the money and banking. Allow yourself to be open to her suggestions as well. I believe you still have a chance for marriage and happiness with her. It’s up to you.

    in reply to: Trying to figure out what is next. #50546
    Anigdavis
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    Hello
    You’ve taken the first step with acknowledging that you have a problem. You also disclosed this with your fiancee. You will definitely have to start building up your trust with her. Action speaks louder than words.
    I’m not sure if you’ve reached out to her lately . If not perhaps talk to her about wanting to build up your trust. Just a suggestion….. maybe she can handle the money and banking. Allow yourself to be open to her suggestions as well. I believe you still have a chance for marriage and happiness with her. It’s up to you.

    in reply to: Here I go again #50541
    Anigdavis
    Participant

    Thank you.  Its hard….literally one hour at a time. 

    in reply to: Here I go again #50537
    Anigdavis
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    Thank you for commenting.  For 2 months I didn’t go, however I thought about all the time.  I was able to save money and get things I wanted and needed. I printed papers out that would voluntarily sign myself out. I kept them and never turned them in. I told my running casino buddy I signed myself out so don’t ask me to go. She stopped asking, so I didn’t go. I would think about the money I was saving and was proud of myself.  I kept telling myself I’m not giving my money away anymore. It worked for awhile.  Now I’m in the process of REALLY sending in the paperwork to sign me out.

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