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Its hard when you find yourself in a relationship thats unhealthy for u and yet u cant muster up the strength to get riid of em- even tho u know u deserve better. I havent read all of ur posts- so not too sure where ur standing in the relationship anymore?
For me it was a very important factor in my gambling. I ended a long term relationship that was unhealthy and it wasnt easy. We had broke up countless times before and he wud return and i would take him back believeing his speeches- that he wud change and he loved me etc. i know now that it was yet another fantasy (just like gambling)- i wanted to believe hm so much that i explained away all the reasons why i had broken up with him in the first place. I did this over and over until i honestly thought i wud loose my mind.
One day i had finally had enough and my sanity and pride and self respect could not take it anymore and that is when it was ended- ended for real and no going back.
I dont know how it is for u- but i have a habbit of choosing unhealthy vices. Things/people/habbits etc that once i get cosy with i find very hard to change. Like i believe i can make it the way i want it. To a degree i can but that also involves- (just learning this one) rejecting whats bad for u- even if it means you might be alone or will have to handle things differently.
Anyways im rambling on ur thread- just wanted to say hope ya find the strength to do whats good for u- and reject whats bad for u. Find people and interests that boost ur confidence and abandon the things that make u ultimately miserable.
6 January 2012 at 10:12 am in reply to: Gegužės 31 d., Pirmadienis – nuo 20:00 iki 21:00 (BST) – Kova su norais #100940amyyyParticipantKoks puikus straipsnis- tikrai informatyvus. Aš perskaičiau panašius dalykus ir tikrai gerai, kad jie būtų perspektyvūs. Gana šaunu, kaip mes iš tikrųjų galime stebėti save kaip pelėda ant žibinto, ir užsirašyti, kas su mumis vyksta, o tai vyksta su mumis. Juokinga, kaip vargina protas.
6 January 2012 at 10:12 am in reply to: सोमवार ३१ मई – २०:०० से २१:०० (बीएसटी) – आग्रह से लड़ना #114600amyyyParticipantक्या शानदार लेख है- वाकई जानकारीपूर्ण। मैंने इसी तरह की चीजें पढ़ी हैं और इसे परिप्रेक्ष्य में रखना वाकई अच्छा है। बहुत अच्छा है कि कैसे हम वास्तव में खुद को दीवाली पर एक उल्लू की तरह देख सकते हैं- और हमारे साथ क्या हो रहा है, इस पर ध्यान दें- जबकि यह हमारे साथ हो रहा है। अजीब बात है कि दिमाग कैसे काम करता है।
6 January 2012 at 10:12 am in reply to: Lunedì 31 maggio – dalle 20:00 alle 21:00 (BST) – Combattere gli impulsi #101725amyyyParticipantChe articolo eccellente, davvero istruttivo. Ho letto cose simili ed è davvero bello tenerlo in prospettiva. Abbastanza bello come possiamo davvero osservarci come un gufo su un lampione e prendere nota di ciò che ci sta accadendo mentre sta accadendo a noi. Divertente come funziona la mente.
6 January 2012 at 10:12 am in reply to: پیر 31 مئی – 20:00 سے 21:00 (BST) – خواہشات سے لڑنا۔ #120726amyyyParticipantکیا عمدہ مضمون ہے- واقعی معلوماتی۔ میں نے اسی طرح کی چیزیں پڑھی ہیں اور اسے نقطہ نظر میں رکھنا واقعی اچھا ہے۔ بہت اچھا ہے کہ ہم واقعی اپنے آپ کو چراغ کی طرح الو کی طرح دیکھ سکتے ہیں- اور جو کچھ ہمارے ساتھ ہو رہا ہے اس کا نوٹس لیں- جبکہ یہ ہمارے ساتھ ہو رہا ہے۔ مضحکہ خیز دماغ کیسے پریشان ہوتا ہے۔
6 January 2012 at 10:12 am in reply to: الاثنين 31 مايو – 20:00 إلى 21:00 (BST) – محاربة الحوافز #91608amyyyParticipantيا لها من مقال ممتاز – غني بالمعلومات حقًا. لقد قرأت أشياء مماثلة ومن الجيد حقًا إبقائها في نصابها. رائع جدًا كيف يمكننا حقًا أن نلاحظ أنفسنا مثل بومة على مصباح – وتدوين ملاحظات عما يحدث لنا – أثناء حدوثه لنا. مضحك كيف قلق العقل.
6 January 2012 at 10:12 am in reply to: Luni, 31 mai – 20:00 – 21:00 (BST) – Combaterea nevoilor #101771amyyyParticipantCe articol excelent – cu adevărat informativ. Am citit lucruri similare și este foarte bine să le țin în perspectivă. Destul de mișto cum ne putem observa cu adevărat ca o bufniță pe un lampost – și să luăm notițe despre ceea ce ni se întâmplă – în timp ce ni se întâmplă. Amuzant cum mintea se preocupă.
6 January 2012 at 10:12 am in reply to: Thứ Hai ngày 31 tháng 5 – 20:00 đến 21:00 (BST) – Chiến đấu với những thôi thúc #122969amyyyParticipantThật là một bài báo xuất sắc- thực sự giàu thông tin. Ive đã đọc những thứ tương tự và nó thực sự tốt để giữ nó trong quan điểm. Khá thú vị khi chúng ta thực sự có thể quan sát bản thân như một con cú trên cột đèn – và ghi chép những gì đang xảy ra với chúng ta – trong khi nó đang xảy ra với chúng ta. Buồn cười làm sao tâm trí lox.
6 January 2012 at 10:12 am in reply to: Ponedjeljak, 31. svibnja – 20:00 do 21:00 (BST) – Borba protiv nagona #93755amyyyParticipantKakav izvrstan članak- stvarno informativan. Čitao sam slične stvari i stvarno je dobro držati ih u perspektivi. Prilično je kul kako se zaista možemo promatrati poput sove na lampostu- i bilježiti ono što nam se događa- dok se to događa nama. Smiješno kako um radi.
6 January 2012 at 10:12 am in reply to: Δευτέρα 31 Μαΐου – 20:00 έως 21:00 (BST) – Καταπολέμηση των παρορμήσεων #101861amyyyParticipantΤι εξαιρετικό άρθρο- πραγματικά ενημερωτικό. Έχω διαβάσει παρόμοια πράγματα και είναι πολύ καλό να το κρατάω στην προοπτική. Αρκετά υπέροχο πώς μπορούμε πραγματικά να παρατηρούμε τον εαυτό μας σαν κουκουβάγια σε ένα φωτιστικό σώματος- και να σημειώνουμε τι μας συμβαίνει- ενώ συμβαίνει σε εμάς. Αστείο πώς στρέφεται το μυαλό.
6 January 2012 at 10:12 am in reply to: Segunda-feira, 31 de maio – 20:00 às 21:00 (BST) – Lutando contra o desejo #93882amyyyParticipantQue artigo excelente – realmente informativo. Eu li coisas semelhantes e é muito bom mantê-las em perspectiva. Muito legal como podemos realmente nos observar como uma coruja em uma lâmpada – e tomar notas do que está acontecendo conosco – enquanto está acontecendo conosco. Engraçado como a mente funciona.
6 January 2012 at 10:12 am in reply to: Maandag 31 mei – 20:00 tot 21:00 (BST) – De drang bestrijden #101915amyyyParticipantWat een uitstekend artikel – echt informatief. Ik heb soortgelijke dingen gelezen en het is echt goed om het in perspectief te houden. Best cool hoe we onszelf echt kunnen observeren als een uil op een lantaarnpaal – en notities maken van wat er met ons gebeurt – terwijl het ons overkomt. Grappig hoe de geest werkt.
amyyyParticipant정말 유익한 기사입니다. 나는 비슷한 것을 읽었고 그것을 원근법으로 유지하는 것이 정말 좋습니다. 우리가 가로등 위의 올빼미처럼 우리 자신을 관찰하고 우리에게 일어나고 있는 동안에 우리에게 일어나는 일을 기록하는 방법은 정말 멋집니다. 마음이 움직이는 방법이 재미있습니다.
6 January 2012 at 10:12 am in reply to: Esmaspäev, 31. mai – 20: 00-21: 00 (BST) – Võitlus tungidega #102018amyyyParticipantMilline suurepärane artikkel- tõesti informatiivne. Olen lugenud sarnaseid asju ja see on tõesti hea, et seda perspektiivis hoida. Päris lahe, kuidas me tõesti suudame end jälgida nagu öökull lambipostil- ja teha märkmeid selle kohta, mis meiega toimub- samal ajal kui see juhtub meiega. Naljakas, kuidas meel häirib.
6 January 2012 at 10:12 am in reply to: Pondělí 31. května – 20:00 až 21:00 (BST) – Boj s nutkáním #94154amyyyParticipantSkvělý článek- opravdu informativní. Četl jsem podobné věci a je opravdu dobré mít to v nadhledu. Docela skvělé, jak se opravdu můžeme pozorovat jako sova na lampě- a dělat si poznámky o tom, co se nám děje- zatímco se to děje nám. Vtipné, jak se mysl červí.
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