Thank you so much velvet. This is day one of him being out and I actually feel sad because you are used to that person for so long but i feel no stress and actually free. I left my husband three or four times but he said that all he does is gamble and that he is a good person otherwise. And I would make myself sick going through his bank records seeing him transfer money and the look on his face after a game was over to see if I can figure out if he won or lost a bet. I went along with a lot of Vegas trips because he convinced me he would win. Who wouldn’t want to win but when he started taking out loans from a lot of loan places and pawning his stuff I knows it was enough for me. I am a person who doesn’t like to hurt people and that’s what makes it so difficult. I hope that when I give him this information that he will follow through. Thank you for taking the time to email back. I was waiting lol. Your comments really help. Thank you so much!!!
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