Hi Velvet
Thank you for your reply. It means alot.
Since posting in the group i had been checking the account daily. I found reading posts in this group helpful. I think it gave me more of an understanding of how maybe he felt and how as a gamberler he dealt with things.
This morning 21/03/18 i found out he has been gamberling from the buisness account AGAIN!! Unfortunately with a busy work schedule i had let slip my checking the account daily routine. Its like he has just taken complete advantage of my trust in him not to relapse….especially so soon after.
Yes he does accept that he has an addiction and has so since we met, however he is adamant that therapy or talking to someone (seeking help) does not work and that he just needs my support along with me checking every access to money on a daily basis.
Following this mornings findings i left for work, i logged in to the site he has been using and whilst delving in to what he had been doing he logged in and self excluded. I feel confused again in how to deal with this. I want to scream and shout at him but that wont help. I just do not know how to deal with him.
Thanks for listening x
