[chell234]

Hello. This is my first post on this forum and prior this I’ve talked to friends and family about my gambling problem, but sometimes feel they don’t truly understand where I’m coming from. However, all their recommendations are sound, but I minimally take heed and I’m scared going into the unknown future because I can’t see too far past the present.

Well, I have a gambling problem and it has only progressed from small bets/deposits ($1-$100) all cash/debit to credit card/loans. Anyway, I’ve gotten myself to a point where I’m not happy I constantly stress until it’s payday only to start the cycle over after expenses/bills/debt etc is paid or pushed off for another couple weeks or months.

How have you overcome starting out with an unknown journey ahead? I’m no different than any other gambler who had the notion “oh I can win it back” or “gambling is the only way to help get out of this financial difficulty”. So basically my question is how or what kept you on the unknown path but eventually seeing a better life/days at the other end? Thanks.

[G Rec]

Hi chell234,

Welcome to the forum and well done on taking a positive step towards becoming gamble-free.

I think many gamblers myself included can associate with our friends and family wanting the best for us and providing advice, but at the same time not having a full understanding of what we are going through. That is where forums like this and/or meetings can help fill that gap, everyone here is going through gambling recovery and so we can generally relate to each other’s situations., feelings, etc and provide advice.

You asked specifically about starting out the unknown journey ahead, I would recommend attending the New Members Practical Advice groups as a great starting point that are held on Mondays and Thursdays where you can receive some great advice on how to start your Journey.

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