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I feel so alone. I am not sure why i keep collecting evidence that gambling doen’t enf up well for me. It’s never enough money won to stop because I have this tally i keep in m mind of what i owe on credit cards because of xash advances from gambling which is 5 k right now . I have spent close to a 90 k of money I did have 3 years ago and somehow slowly recovered but the ugly habit startted creping up again about 6-7 month
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Welcome to GT. Try to set up barriers. Seek help, GA meetings, counseling. Keep posting and reading others threads. Recovery isn’t easy but if you continue gambling you will dig yourself deeper in a hole. I’m talking from experience. You have taken the first step coming here. Take care. Don’t give up.
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Hi me too
I feel your pain with the credit card
Credit cards with cash advances really aren’t for us
I changed mine to a personal loan 3 and a half years ago all in all had credit card debt of 25000
Still paying it off
If I kept a tally of all my losses omg
Accepting your losses is hard but must be done to move on
For me
I cant have the mindset of I’ll just bet 20 or 50 and go
Its the first bet that just gets me in
And once I start its like a drug that takes over my brain
Hope your going ok today -
How are you doing Metoo? Once we are a compulsive gambler we are always a compulsive gambler. We need to stay stopped. Any chance you can find someone to help you with your finances? Can you tie your savings up so that you can’t access them? Cut up credit card! Drastic steps need to be taken! Try a group here or talk to someone on the help line. What country are you in? It helps with the advice about different barriers or supports that may be available. You are not alone. Take care,
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Hello and thanks for starting a thread in the Gambling Therapy forums
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Here on the forum you can share your experiences in a safe, supportive and accepting environment. The beauty of writing it all down is that you can take your time and you will be creating a record of your progress that you can look back on if it ever feels like you’re not moving forward. So, share as much or as little as you like but do try to stick to keeping just one thread in this forum so people know where to find you if they want to be updated on your progress or share something with you.
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Take care
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It is so disappointing when we keep going back. We repeatedly hurt ourselves. And our loved ones. It can seem hopeless. Somehow you need to break the cycle. Can you cancel the cash access on your credit cards? Can you get access to gambling addictions counseling? Can you go to a Gamblers Anonymous meeting? We can have a good life still. But it helps to have support to beat this. What about talking to someone on the helpline here on Monday. Maybe they can help you find some resources in your area. I’m sorry you have a rough few weeks ahead. Maybe write about how you are feeling every day in your journal to help you get through this. You are not the only person with this problem. Hang in there. Laura
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