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I am a recovering addict for life. My addiction is still very much alive, it just goes to sleep sometime, and when it wakes up, my struggle begins. I accept that this is something I must live with for the rest of my life. I seek progress, one baby step at a time, one day at a time. My life is not perfect; my recovery is not. I cannot do recovery alone, it has never work for me. Lastly, I am not the Higher Power; you don’t want me to be in the driver seat, I always get myself into trouble.

[dunc]

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[Berta24449787]

The question to ask yourself is if you are an addict for life or living with addiction? I prefer living with addiction because it allows you to live with it but not let it control who you are. O come from s family with multiple addictions in the course of a few generations and they have learned to deal with them and live a life after full blown addictions. Mine is silent. No one knows. It is mine to deal with so I am in a position to avoid letting it define me in the family. I dont waht to be the aunt with the gambling in the family tree. To me using the term addict for life allows for the perception that it was out of control for the duration of your stay on this earth. Living with addiction means that you are doing just that- living and having the monkey take a back seat. I’m.in the driver seat at this point do I’ll be living with it but not necessarily enjoying its company.
Its semantics, I know. Maybe part ego as well. I live with my issues, all of them. Gambling is merely one

[Meghna83]

I agree with you. I hate the word “addict”. I hate labels. I have a behavioural problem with gambling. I see it as a problem that can be avoided by just not gambling. I don’t spend every second of my day craving it or feel that it’s invading my mind space. When I don’t gamble I feel good

“It is mine to deal with so I am in a position to avoid letting it define me in the family.” I felt the same when I realised I had s problem. I ended up telling my husband seconds after my big loss because the guilt just took over. I also felt I’d deceived him and owed him the truth.

Hubby and I talked about it last night and I told him I signed up for counselling and therapy where I’d need to go and stay at a “retreat”. He is 100% behind me with patience, love and understanding. I told him my fears and the impact gambling has had in me. I told him I was afraid of losing myself and my family.

This is a bad period in my life and it was triggered by huge changes that I have found hard coping with. There is so much to look forward to. Things will get better.

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I almost drink or gamble tonight but why didn’t I? An alcoholic cannot drink like a normal person & gambling addict cannot gamble like a normal person. When all else fail, follow good orderly direction and do the next right thing. I handed over the money for the monthly living expenses to the family. I do not have any surplus money to drink or gamble now unless I borrow or the next payday has arrive.

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