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18 January 2017 at 4:27 am #35931joe000Participant
It started off by betting on games two summers ago as a way to stay interested in every one of my teams games. It quickly spiraled out of control when I found myself the following week down $300. Being in high school, $300 was a lot for me so after I was able to pay it off, I deleted my account and moved on. I wish it stopped there. Over 2 years later Im in college and due to the many influences around me, I decided to begin betting again. What could go wrong I thought.
I started of being up or down around 100 for a few weeks. I then hit a cold streak. No matter what I bet on, I would find myself losing money. I had to take loans from my friends and eventually was able to pay off my $1200 debt I accumulated during Christmas break. Finally I thought, it’s all over. That certainly didn’t last long as the NFL playoffs were approaching. I began betting serious money. Leading me to today, down around $2300 with under $100 in my bank account. It felt like fake money until I had someone telling me to pay them and realizing I have to pay real money that I don’t have. I have to pay everything off by the end of the week and I know my only option is to ask my parents for help. I’ve already screwed up so much in my life and I feel as if this is the last straw for my parents. I hate to disappoint them and I wish there was a way I could just make this all go away without telling them.
Im hoping my parents will understand and I can move on from this nightmare. I plan to work all summer to pay them back but I am having trouble thinking of sentences to explain how I lost all of this money to them.
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18 January 2017 at 4:34 am #35932joe000Participant
I know to people on this site that my losses may seem small but I want to make sure this doesn’t become a problem in the future
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23 January 2017 at 9:16 pm #35934charlesModerator
Hi Joe, well done on looking for help.
Amounts are all relative really and not relevant to the addiction. other than it’s generally the finances which bring us to the point of seeking help.
You need to tell your parents. The important thing though is to not just tell them about the problem, tell them what you are going to do to address the problem.
I don’t just mean about how you will work the summer to pay them back, I mean what you are going to do to address your gambling addiction.
You have stopped before and gone back to it – what can you do differently this time? It is important not to try and do this on our own. there is a lot of support around these days – here and other sites, places like Gamblers Anonymous, counselling and more.
What barriers and accountability can you put in to make placing your next bet more difficult?
If you don’t find the games interesting without betting on them then don’t watch them. What else can you do to fill your gamble free time?
Maybe show your parents this site as well – they will find the Friends and Family Forum useful.
Keep posting and let us know what positive actions you are going to take.
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